My husbands crazy ex wife is filing for child support. but heres the screwed up part its not his child. he was overseas when she had the baby by a different guy and they were separated living in different states when as well. so her and he boyfriend , who by the way signed the birth certificate, broke up. so we get a phone call about a month ago saying that she was filing for child support but she need our address so my husband could fill out some paper work saying he wasn't the father. so the real father could take a dna test. ok that was all fine and dandy but the paper work has never came. so my question is, is there really extra paper work that he would need to fill out? and just in case she is trying to say my husband is the father what can we do to stop her? and is there anything he can do pro actively to stop her from filing it on him? Since he his Air Force and his dna is on file could they submit it to the state for him?
2007-07-21 16:41:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
i would keep a close eye on this becuase i just read an article on the internet where mothers have got child support ordered from men who were not the father becuase the guy didnt know she was even taken it to court. she did a thing where she said she didnt know the location of the father and in turn just had to run an add in the local papper anouncing that she is filing. anyway once the non father found out he was ordered to pay child support he hired a lawyer got dna testing that proved that he wasnt the father and went to court. the court dismissed dna evident and upheld the order. in the article the person said they do this becuase it is not in the best intrest of the child to not recieve support outside of goverment support.
i will try to find article and will update post if i do. you will crap at this article.
OK HERE IS THE LINK TO THAT ARTICLE
2007-07-21 16:55:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The DNA on file cannot be used for any purpose other than to ID his body.
You need to consult with an attorney who specializes in child custody and child support issues. Some give free consultations and others will charge you a nominal fee for a 30 minute consultation.
2007-07-21 16:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Yak Rider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Child support and custody are two different issues. Both have to be court ordered. Since your father was court ordered to pay child support to your mother, that's what he's doing. Since you mother was granted custody of you via another court order, you are living with her. If you want to live with your father, and your mother is not willing to allow you to do so, he would need to go back to court and petition that the original ruling giving your mother custody be overturned. In order for that to be successful, he would have to prove that living with your mother is a danger to your life and safety. So no, you saying you don't like your mom (as all children your age do sooner or later) is not going to make a judge overrule an existing custody order.
2016-04-01 06:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most states have some seriously screwed up laws pertaining to child support. Your husband does not need to be the father to have some corrupt judge require him to pay a large percentage of his income for 18 years or more. Get a lawyer immediately.
2007-07-21 17:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Nels N 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she has a leg to stand on. However, your husband will have to submit to a DNA test if and when she does file. The test should prove that he is not the father. If I were him, I would request one when he gets the papers that are served on him.
2007-07-21 16:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by buttercup89119 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she has a leg to stand on. But whatever military base you are at should have a legal office. The beauty part of being military is the free legal in stuff like this. Call the base operator and ask for the legal office and go from there.
2007-07-21 16:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might be a hassle, but,he might have to take some time off and actually go and get the dna test, if requested by a court. to prove the paternity of the child.
2007-07-21 16:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ask me anything 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i feel that this a question only jag could help him with it sounds like she is just bluffing since how she hasnt sent them yet i wouldnt sumit anyting untill he has too he doesnt want to sell himself short in the long run
unfortunuately it is really up to him to deal with this since how it is his ex wife that is doing this however you can scedule an apt with jag and you and your husband can go into the office to seek advice if he doesnt want to go you can atleast go tell the lawyer that you just need to know what he needs to do and he couldnt come in to the apt they may help you out
2007-07-22 14:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by Honey Badger Doesnt give a Shat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a POA? If so, go see JAG ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!! They may or not be able to help you, but atleast it will be on file.
2007-07-22 05:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think JAG might be of some assisatnce here!
2007-07-21 17:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by Stand-up philosopher. It's good to be the King 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋