ok i am a loud talker, and i cuss quite a bit if i get talkin too much, or if i get excited , that is how i was talked too, and now people say im rude, and i am not being rude im just a very honest person do you think being honest all the time makes you rude? just need someones opinion. and how many out there are considered rude.
2007-07-21 06:56:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
im consisteredd rude by many.. and why I don't know. perhaps becaue I am brutally honest, totally straight forward and I don't beat around the bush. Whether it will hurt your feelings or not... I have to tell you what is on my mind, what i am thinking and what I will or will not do.
I am so me... but that is what makes me me. I wouldn't trade me for me
2007-07-21 07:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens by repeated usage. If you are using the same attitude with everyone, then probably people will find you rude. There is a situation for everything, if you can get a better hold on the situations, you won't be having much of a problem as far as your behaviour is concerned.
2007-07-21 07:00:58 · answer #2 · answered by Eternity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rudeness, by making use of its very definition is: "being thoughtless". persist with this rule again to a end as to the character of rudeness. it extremely is an excellent style of issues. The record could be long. everywhere from no longer conserving the door for the different individual - all a thank you to treating a individual with finished rejection, blatantly ignoring that individual and an utter brush aside for the persons thoughts are truthfully rude. difficulty-loose courtesy is extra of common-sense and putting your self of their shoes, like assisting somebody whilst they are struggling with a great style of parcels on the two their hand.
2016-11-10 01:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a way to be honest without being loud and certainly without cussing. So yeah, you're being rude. Being "honest" in this situation is something you can change.
2007-07-21 08:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been considered rude because I am quiet and shy around new people. I swear alot, it's habbit, it doesn't make me rude though. Being honest is ok but you need to try and have some tact so your not hurtful.
2007-07-21 07:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know, I have the same problem. Oh, and according to some people, when children wake up screaming in the night, it is because of me. Glad to meet someone with as boisterous a personality as me. we should get together for a beer.
2007-07-21 07:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are very opinionated ,or just too forthcoming in your opinions, some people cannot handle this as they either are too damn stupid or know that if clallenged that they will come off last anyway ,so what thay now do as a defence ,attack your character,
2007-07-21 09:41:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't consider you rude; that is just your personality. However sometimes we do have to rein in our personalities. Read what Eternity has posted. Good info for all of us.
2007-07-21 07:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds rude to me. Also sounds like someone who is insecure or unsure of themselves.
2007-07-21 07:01:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋