I want revenge on my ex.?

Question

I just found out I have HPV 3 days ago. I told my ex the same day and he said he was sorry and that's it. I get the feeling that since he's never had an outbreak that he thinks he didn't give it to me, but my doctor said that given my history that I must've just come in contact with it in the past few months and my ex was the only person I've been with in the past year!

My friends say to wait for karma but out of the 75% of sexually active men with HPV only 1% of them get an outbreak, so he may never get one and I don't have time to wait. I want payback now. Part of the reason I'm so pissed is because I just saw a personals ad he posted on Craigslist LAST NIGHT saying that he's looking for some "disease free" when he's the one walking around with HPV.

I don't know what to do because I know revenge is very un-Christian like, but I need payback, and I was working on the anger but the CL ad was the last straw. What can I do to get revenge but he won't know it was me? Any ideas?

I had a pap smear 2 weeks before I started dating him. It was negative as were all the other paps I've had in my life. Considering he's only one of 3 guys I've been with (and the other 2 relationships never went far enough to not use condoms) it's pretty safe to assume I got it from him.

Answer 1

Like the saying goes " what goes around comes around." I know it may be hard what your going through, but trust me his turn will come. And then it will feel so good knowing that you didn't have anything to do with it and it was purely karma. Plus who knows what kind of person he will pick up from craigslist. Take care!!

Answer 2

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Answer 3

I know how you feel. HPV can cause cervical cancer. The only way to tell if you got it from him is that you were a virgin. This also means that you had no oral sex too because HPV can spread through body fluids. HPV is like any other virus like herpes, which can lie dormant for years before coming out. By the way, HPV can cause cancer of the penis also. You might want to tell him this. Tell him to put vinegar on his ""Thing" and if any white spots appear, he is definitely infected. You need to make sure you are getting enough folic acid because slightly abnormal pap smears can be reversed easily from taking folic acid. You should not use tampons or douches anymore. I am a survivor and the only thing you can do is make sure his future partners know. The law should also be changed to include HPV as an assault with a deadly weapon because it can cause cervical cancer. Just a word of warning, keep your stress levels down and it can help keep HPV from reactivating. Hang in there girl.

Answer 4

Hello,

My name is Julia and I work with NBC Universal. We are currently developing a new nationally syndicated talk show called "The Steve Wilkos Show" Steve Wilkos is an x cop an x marine. The purpose of the show is to help people with their problems. Why not have Steve confront him on national TV? It would at least help prevent him from continuing to spread the disease. Call me at my toll free number fight now, 877-836-3413. Help will be on the way.
Sincerely,
Julia
NBC Universal
877-836-3413

Answer 5

How do we know that you have only had it a few months? you may have had it years.What caused you to see your doctor -What symptoms did you have?On what basis did he say it was recent.HPV is responsible for 70% of abnormal smears. If you did pick it up years ago -can you prove that you did not you could in fact be responsible for passing it on to your ex (if in fact he does have it.). just because he said he was sorry-that does not mean that he knew and was accepting responsibility but just that he was sorry that you had it. Has he been screened at all? for genital warts-did he in fact have any?
Is he asking for someone who is disease free because he knows that he is-and does not want the risk of catching anything.

Answer 6

Honey my best advice is hire you a lawyer claiming that you are in dare stress of dying from this situation an if you cannnnnnnn get a good lawyer I just bet if he has money some of his will be yours i think its worth a try what have you got to loose after all he will possibly work all his life so I say go for it.a good lawyer may be able to actually help you gain from this bad situation. LUCK to you

Answer 7

Copy the ad and go to your attorney if you are married, other wise make plans to leave. You are not bound to such a person who acts unfaithful to you. I know you are mad right now and have every right to be mad, but you don't have the right to act upon it.
You know Jesus teaching is to forgive those who have sinned against us. That doesn't mean you have to continue to be in this relationship, just that you have to forgive them and ask God to help you do that even if you don't feel like it. When we don't forgive we carry it around with us and it gives them the power to continually hurt us because carrying around anger and unforgiveness hurts our spirit. You know getting revenge is unchristian like and if you believe in Jesus then act like you do. You will be glad you did.

Answer 8

How do you know that you got it from him and how do we really know that you did not sleep around? Payback is not going to solve anything you need to grow up and get a life and take a look at yourself....I bet you were messing around as much as he was on you.

Answer 9

well as far as i can think, you might have contacted this HPV from your ex or any other large number of guys with whom you were having various kinky sexual intercources

Answer 10

You can blow up his car, you would be helping him AND the enviroment! without his car, he will realize that material items aren't everything AND that's one less polutant!!!!!!!

Or you can go buy lice from someone and get creative with it.