just so clueless when it comes to pleasing a woman?
2007-07-21 05:08:31 · 20 answers · asked by Kristy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm easliy pleased, never really had any problems in that department lol but so many of my friends complain and I just don't get it
2007-07-21 05:17:50 · update #1
Why do some women fear saying what they like in bed? We're all responsible for our own orgasm. No one can read your mind so if you're not getting what you want and you're not saying anything about it then it's 100% your own fault.
The majority of women I've been with had no clue what to do either but I didn't lie and whine about it.
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If you're so easily pleased why aren't you telling him what you like? This has one of the simplest solutions of any question here. You and your friends just need to stop whining to each other and actually participate in the sex.
It's pretty pathetic that you can come here and trash your guy to thousands of complete strangers (particularly when you are the problem) and yet you can't find a way to communicate in your own relationship.
2007-07-21 05:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask and you shall receive. You just need to talk to the guy. If he is so into himself that he doesn't care whether you are pleased or not then move on. Sex is a two way street to be enjoyed by both parties. Tell him what you like and hope he gives it to you.
2007-07-21 12:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by Cisco Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kristy: In my opinion I think it is sometimes due to ignorance, sometimes because of selfishness and sometimes not knowing what it is exactly that their woman desires. If you can have an honest, mature and open minded conversation about your wants/needs with your partner then perhaps things might hopefully improve for you.
2007-07-21 12:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are talking about sex..
Well your probably not going to be pleased if you throw yourself at them with one night stands. The best sex is in marriage ill explain why in your other question soon.
But i think its just about respect if you care about your partner your going to want to please her. I dare you to read the 5 love languages its about pleasing your partner. Sometimes guys are trying to please there wife but dont know how because there not speaking there language.
There is 5 types of love langauges Quality time, Touch, Words of affirmation, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service. A partner in the relationship will often do unto there partner what they'd like done to them but really when you do that to them they dont like it at all.. or it means little to them. this book explains it and tells you how to keep your partner pleased and happy so that they will reciprocate it with you.
check out the website http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/
this book has sold millions of copies and nearly every parent i know has heard of it.
2007-07-21 20:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because those guys obviously don`t have enough experience being with a woman. Any man that`s been involved in a serious relationship know`s what it takes to please a woman time and time again.
2007-07-21 12:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe the women don't communicate. It's a 2 way street.
2007-07-21 12:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coz for many Guys Pleasing Women is like TABOO
2007-07-21 13:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there either selfish or thick.can some one tell all the men out there that straight get on and off sex is crap for women!o my good i don't know!, when you find out let me know.if you have to tell him exactly what to do wheres the passion.
2007-07-21 12:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lack of experience...too much of ego to ask any friend...not reading right books...& top of all...shy girl who does not guide them well
2007-07-21 12:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the women just doesn't know what she wants.
2007-07-21 12:11:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mr.Bones 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋