does anyone else experience this??? What can you do?
2007-07-21 04:48:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you fantasize and are you going to act any time soon on it?
No? Let it slide
2007-07-21 04:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OK, I'm trying to figure out if you are male or female. OK assuming you are a male and your girlfriend is bi-sexual and you are the ones fantasizing about girls, the answer is YES most men do fantasize about women together intimately. It's the most expressively intimate sexual act there is in a man's eye however; the only thing you can do about it is let go and enjoy it. It's within you and you can't possibly control what turns you on but please be careful. Most women who are bi-sexual normally leave their boyfriends for the woman they are with so take it slow and easy on that fantasizing thing and encouraging it too much because if you're not careful your bi-sexual girlfriend can easily be turned out and choose a Gay lifestyle and/or to just leave you period for the other woman.
2007-07-21 11:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah! Happens to me all the time!
What can you do?
- Watch porn with your BF. He'll probably like that.
- Look at girls when you're people watching. Wear mirrored sun glasses so nobody knows...
- Give it a go some day! Come on, you only live once! Doing it once (or even four times) doesn't make you bi or gay or anything. It just makes you a person who is willing to experiment and have fun in life!
2007-07-21 12:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by ☎ Rotary Dial ☎ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are between 13 and 18, these days it's almost natural for young girls to do so. Many talk it out with a good friend who they trust and fantasize in possibly trying to experiment with in such actions. Some do it because they don't know if they can trust boys in sexual relations at an early age. The only thing I can say is that if you find yourself involved in such, remember it's only to satisfy your curiosity.
2007-07-21 12:00:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skittle I do not know how old you are but am guessing that you are in adolescence and at that age it is very normal to have these feelings. There are a lot of females when in their teens are a bit gender confused and/or bi-curious. You can either act on these feelings with a girlfriend that you believe may be interested in you and experiment or try and not pay attention to these feelings. The choice is yours and whichever you choose is part of growing up. There are a lot of people in middle age who also experience these emotions and sometimes question their sexuality.
2007-07-21 11:59:24 · answer #5 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange thing! I am also straight and fantasize about girls all the time. However, people say there is nothing wrong with me.
Come on! That means your sexual orientation is not yet defined, which means you are undecided deep inside.
As for straight male fantasizing about other males... well, I do fantasize about some other males' money and power, but never about their ***** or assholes.
2007-07-21 11:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Emil Alexandrescu 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
depends on what you mean by 'fantasize"
If you... think about them in an imtimate way. Want to kiss or hold them, be with them. You might not be as staright as you think
If you.. Look at other girls and think 'shes so pretty' or 'wow she has great legs' then thats normal. Its normal for girls to compare & notice others of the same sex
2007-07-21 11:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you fantasize about girls while having sex with your boyfriend you might not be as into guys as you think you are.
If it's just an in general then that happens as well, you could be bi-curious.
I think female sexuality is more fluid then mens so I don't think there is anything abnormal about it.
2007-07-21 11:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its just your mind wondering what else could be out there for you. I wouldn`t worry if you love your bf though. Just give into these thoughts and maybe they will go away soon. Ask yourself how strong these thoughts are? If they are strong maybe you are a bi or perhaps you are just curious???? Good Luck xx
2007-07-21 11:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by Till Death Do Us Part... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I fantasize about girls all the time and no, I never ever ever fantasize about men not one time.
2007-07-21 11:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋