I was casually seeing this guy for awhile now we are like each other and have been seeing him more often.....the other night I caught him looking inside of my wallet. I was like huh? I'm not mad just curious about what he was looking for.Nothing was stolen from my wallet. he makes alot of money and owns an expensive car and no he was not trying to steal money from me...I've not questioned him about it and am not sure if I should ask him what he was looking for. We don't know each other well and am assuming perhaps wanted to know who I was...I don't know...I'm only speculating.....who do you think?
2007-07-21 03:56:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry, I ment ...what do you think?
2007-07-21 03:56:56 · update #1
Well,... if you dont know him that well,... he had no buisness looking thru your things.
He was probably trying to see if you had other guys numbers,... things like that,... but he should have just asked you,...
you need to have a very serious relationship before you can assume that you can do those things
2007-07-21 04:27:44 · answer #1 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why can't you question him? He felt so free to go through your wallet..He should ask you things if he wants to know things about you. Rambling through someone's wallet you "like" is not cool..You don't even know each other well & he shouldn't feel that comfy to go through your wallet..you don't need to go off of speculations, you need to approach him and see what's up..MAJOR RED FLAG!
2007-07-21 11:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe he's looking pictures of you?
Sometimes, people tend to look at one's wallet/cellphone because it makes or describes something about the one.
So maybe, he just wants to learn more about you.
Good luck.
2007-07-21 11:04:20 · answer #3 · answered by speakers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is looking for anything that could possibly pin you to another man--ex phone numbers, pictures, etc. mine used to do that and the longer we were together the worse he got. next he will start going thru your phone and text messages, then your dresser drawers, then your computer. my ex just got worse and worse. i wasn't even allowed to call my mom without him sitting next to me. now we have split up and he still comes over to visit and goes thru all my stuff and accuses me of cheating on him when we are not even together. be careful
2007-07-21 11:12:16 · answer #4 · answered by jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was violating you by doing that. Can't be trusted. No matter what the reason, this is bad.
2007-07-21 11:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just be honest and up front with him. if it seems fish from that point, dump him. you can't trust someone who does that.
2007-07-21 11:03:54 · answer #6 · answered by Hitch™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a control freak. get away from him NOW!!!
2007-07-21 11:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rick H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋