2007-07-21 02:24:47 · 14 answers · asked by Raj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is to be your wife, be thankful that she has so far been too shy to open her legs. It means that she is a virgin and in today's world that is to be commended and treasured. It means she is saving herself for her husband- look at it as a gift from her to you. If she is not to be your wife, then leave her alone and let her continue to wait for the man who will be her husband. What right do you have to take a gift that rightfully belongs to another man?
2007-07-21 02:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by cynjo59 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not in the USA. There's no stigma associated with pre-marital sex any longer, except in some communities. If the husband lied to his spouse about the pre-marital experiences, there might be a breakdown in the marriage that would lead to a divorce in states that have liberalized the grounds for divorce. But the fact that a man came to the marriage as not a virgin is not grounds for divorce in any of the United States. What the law might be in India or under the Shariah, I do not care to predict. But if either of those is the governing law and you chose not to mention that, then it's your own fault for getting bad advice. My suggestion is to get over it and get on with life.
2016-05-19 02:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by kym 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total crapshoot.
Decide how important sex is for you and date someone who feels about the same. If lack of sex is going to hurt your relationship, and it doesn't look like her behavior is going to change, then find a new partner. Of course, make sure you dated them long enough to know how they feel about sex.
If you are religious and are abstaining until marriage, understand the risk associated with entering a life contract with someone who's sexual habits you don't know. I assume you already understand the risk associated with having sex before marriage.
2007-07-21 02:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by Sporty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously respects herself, respect her, if you don't, and try to force her into what you want to do with her without her consent, you can call it rape and you will be looking at jail time.
Find another! She cares about herself and her values, and I applaud her for that, find a woman who does not have so much self respect for her and who will give you what you want!
2007-07-21 02:33:40 · answer #4 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess your not going to. The door has to be opened first!
2007-07-21 02:34:39 · answer #5 · answered by what u talkin' bout? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are too selfish and crude and ignorant to have a sex life I hope she never "opens her legs" for you.
2007-07-21 02:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by digimutt 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What about her? perhaps you need a more experienced Lady to ensure your needs are met...... allow this young lady time to mature and be true to herself....
2007-07-21 02:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by MJ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
communicate with her as much as you can about sexual intimacies and help her overcome this hesitation in a simple way,dnt force her in anyway.she wd take her time.better marry her if you love her.
2007-07-21 02:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by nitin k 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's not only about ur pleasure .. if she's not ready you can't force her give her more time
2007-07-21 03:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Adviser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has hands, mouth and a butt. Try a little romance or find a new girl.
2007-07-21 02:29:59 · answer #10 · answered by Iknow 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋