We had a wonderful night having sex. After 4 days a detective called me and said that, she accused me of putting some kind of drug in her drink to make her have sex with me. Which is not true. Next morning, she kissed me and left me her phone number (I have her handwriting ). Since that last call the detective did not call me. I called him to make sure what is going on and gave him her handwriting photocopy. He said that they are still investigating the case. I do not know what to do. I am scared Help me. What should I do
2007-07-20 21:42:28 · 18 answers · asked by ag 2 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
I disagree with the person who said to call her. Do Not Contact Her. Clearly she's a disturbed individual. It's doubtful this will ever go to court. If the police ask to speak to you about it, get a lawyer first--that doesn't mean you're guilty, just that you're smart.
If she wasn't drugged--and you'd have noticed--then she couldn't have had a blood test to SHOW she was drugged. So take a deep breath, hope for the best (the judicial system doesn't want to waste much time on false claims), but prepare for the worst (get the name of a lawyer, just in case).
2007-07-20 21:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Vaughn 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NUMBER 1:
Is the so called detective really a detective? Maybe it is some sort of scam to get money or something else from you. Don't be scared. Don't get bullied by someone who sounds pretty disturbed.
NUMBER 2:
Talk to a police officer and ask if the procedure that was used to inform you by the so called detective was legal. It smells like a scam!!! Worst come the worst, get a lawyer.
2007-07-21 04:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 pray first.
2 now if the detectives are not calling u dont call them bk.
3 hope u did use a condom else its easy to detect sperms on clothes.
4 u have her phone no n this can be used against her, u can say why would someone give the no unless they like u or smthing... but this wont make the case strong.
5 ask her to go for drug testing as if the drug is present it can be detected for at least 10 days. so hurry but don't tell her as she might prepare herself..u know Wat i mean..
6 be careful next time.. no matter what use a condom.. dont spill ur juces on her clothes n then also if she accuse u then deny.. but be careful man.. u r not alone
7 inform your lawyer
2007-07-21 05:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by MERc 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Best advice you have been given already is to get an attorney and not offer up anything further until you do and keep this incident in mind when considering having sex with a strange girl in the future...don't do it because you don't know what her psyche is and you are still not off the hook for this incident yet.
2007-07-21 12:31:43 · answer #4 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing, you have a clear conscience that you did not do anything wrong...One proof is you did not come to her but she's the one who is coming to you...And gave you her number and with her handwritten..You dont need to be bothered coz u know the truth...pray hard coz you are a victim of an evil woman...who cant do anything good...
talk to a lawyer and ask what is best for your situation,,
2007-07-21 04:57:44 · answer #5 · answered by twinklee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer
and notice small things that are big like her psrsonality somehting that will make her look liek the type to lie
and oh yea notice her weekness like if she ahs bad memory then you should remenber something like you didn buy her the drink ask her what the drink was tape record if obvioulsy and then make sure it wanst that drink go to the bar check ur recipts ask the bar tender you can get her look like a stupid @ss liar!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-07-21 04:48:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that woman u've met is a bitchy type. u don't have to be guilty if u've done nothing wrong. that phone number she gave u with her handwriting can be a strong evidence to solve the case. prove them that u aren't guilty if that's the truth. ok. g'luck. hope u'll do it. insist that u r on the right track. it's ur right.
2007-07-21 05:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by bed_rest 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow that's awful. I have no idea how to help you, but I'm reminded of a lyric:
"She said and she swore, that she never would deceive me,
but the devil take the women, for they never can be easy."
2007-07-21 04:54:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there was a case, I think they would've picked you up by now. It's probably going to fade away. Remember, it's not on your record unless you go into court and are convicted. It's not like credit where people can screw you up without your knowledge.
2007-07-21 04:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep your mouth shut that's what got the tuna fish in the can.
In America get a mouth first off.
2007-07-21 04:55:59 · answer #10 · answered by lonetraveler 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋