they have been dating for 4 months. and he sleeps over other girls houses and my firend hates it. and he always ditches her. but she loves him, what should she do?
2007-07-20 18:59:37 · 19 answers · asked by megan<3333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should get a life and leave the jerk alone!
And you should be helping her!
2007-07-20 19:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by kissmeagainnow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE TO WAKE UP AND DUMP HIM LIKE A HOT POTATO SHE NEEDS TO FIND A REAL MAN THAT IS GOING TO TREAT HER LIKE A QUEEN AND THAT IS INTO HER THIS GUY IS NOTTTTTTTTINTO HER AT ALL YOU SAY HE IS SPENDING THE NIGHT AT OTHER GIRLS HOUSES AND SHE PUTS UP W/ HE IS NOT A BF AT ALL HE HASN'T EVEN EARNED THE NAME BF HE IS NOT WORTHY OF HER AND SHE DOESN'T DESERVE THE TREATMENT THAT HE IS GIVING HER THIS LIFE'S PASSING HER BY AND AND BEFORE SHE KNOWS IT SHE WILL JUST BE SITTING THERE BE HERSELF AND NO WHERE TO GO SO WHERE IS HE OH THAT'S RIGHT HE'S AT ANOTHER GIRLS HOUSE GETTING HIS JOLLYS OFF IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN TO ME THAT'S A CHEATER ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER GET HER OUT ASAP .........IF WAS REALLY INTO HER AND CARED OR LOVED HER HE WOULD BE W/ HER AND HE WOULD BE SPENDING THE TIME W/ HER FORGET HIM....................HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU MOVE ON..........................................
2007-07-21 02:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well hes probably just sleeping over at a Friends house. sounds like your Friend needs to get over her jealousy problem and deal. OooRrrrr dump him she will get a new boyfriend its not that hard.
2007-07-21 02:04:49 · answer #3 · answered by Quid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a time for a change -in her. He doesn't care about her, and he isn't going to put out the effort to break up with her -another form of respect he doesn't have. He won't change, but if she doesn't give up on him, she will never develop the backbone (self-esteem) to avoid violent relationships in the future.
2007-07-21 02:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanne B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM o honey she needs to get over this loser sleeping at other grls houses and ditching her this guys a loser tell her to dump him!
2007-07-21 02:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ive been here. and my friends were caring like you are. sometimes i wanted them to just mind there busness but i always knew they only did it because they care about me. it was had me torn between my friend and my boyfriend because they would get mad that i was with him and if i wanted to hang out with him one weekend they wouldnt want to come and they would get mad if i didnt go with them. it was hard. just let her know you care and thats why you tell her things you tell her. if shes going to let him go she should do it soon or itll hurt way more later. but if she doesnt want to leave him then you cant make her feel torn or it might mess with her mind, shell get upset and sad because she loves her friends but she really cares about him as well. dont make her feel torn or you can hurt her emotionaly the way he does. just let her know you dont agree with it but your there for her when she needs it and that you only care. good luck with it all. i feel sorry for your friend, but trust me the longer she stays the more itll hurt if she needs to end it later.
2007-07-21 02:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by Niki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see that alot of people are saying that she should just brake up with him. Majority rules, she needs to dump him.
2007-07-21 02:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by I <3 Boys (in girl pants) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she still loves him, either he needs to change, or she needs to change, and its not likely either way. If he's sleeping around, then I really don't understand why she's still around, but maybe its just me.
2007-07-21 02:02:44 · answer #8 · answered by ranchgirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend. She deserves to be number one in her boyfriend's life!
Best of luck to her!
2007-07-21 02:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by iniyaitza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. No question. Stupid to stay with a guy like that.
2007-07-21 02:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by mom2babycolin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋