2007-07-20 18:29:57 · 15 answers · asked by NHBaritone 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
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I'm not certain that there is an adequate answer here. However, perhaps others will find one, so I'll put this question to a vote.
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2007-07-22 15:53:44 · update #1
you just have to state what you believe in to them and you both have to accept your different way of thinking...
.that's what i have to do when the Jehovah's witnesses come to my door....or i just let my dogs bark at them....either way it works
2007-07-20 18:33:23 · answer #1 · answered by ☆Dancing With Myself☆ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if someone has any sign of intelligence, they can discuss things with you without taking offense.
one thing you can do is not make them out to be wrong. in a debate, calling the other person a lier and incorrect just makes them mad, and that's because it's disrepectful, especially whn you can prove one way or another.
you can disagree with everything you want, and you have a right to do so. if the other person is as tollerant and intelligent, they will gladly accept your right to your own view.
but dont take any disrespect either!
2007-07-20 18:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by HW-7 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm under the impression that if you disagree respectfully, this means you personally disagree with this person's belief, and at the same time you will not try to convince them of your belief system, nor will you hold their beliefs against them in the future.
it would be disrespectful to disagree and flat out tell them that they are wrong and you are right. Instead, it is respectful that you accept everyone has different beliefs which work for them. You are tolerant of them instead of becoming hostile and one-minded.
2007-07-20 18:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by xcrun99 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say, this is what I have found from my study of the Bible, I show them the scriptural basis for my beliefs. I listen carefully while they explain their beliefs. I try to find some common ground, something we can both agree on so that we can end the conversation on a positive note.
2007-07-20 18:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by babydoll 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple: do not offend that person's religion, expose your points of views respectfully and peacefully..."I dont believe in christianism (for instance) because of.....", but nothing offensive, make a rational discussion about it, not a war of yellings.....do not show yourself as the only one who's right, or as someone who is talking to a "crazy" person who believes in God, that other person will realize you're mocking him or her, and that's disrespectful too....you'll be able to handle it, I'm sure, you just gave the first step: the desire of establishing a discussion with respect....
Good luck
2007-07-20 18:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by Abbey Road 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's always interesting to learn about what other people believe, but it doesn't mean that I necessarily have to believe those things myself. I thank people for pointing out new ideas, and let them speak freely. If they don't let me speak freely in return, I know something's wrong, but I'm still civil about it. If I disagree with somebody, I reserve the right to say so, but I let them know that I still respect them and their right to believe as they wish. I don't go around telling people that my way is the only way.
2007-07-20 18:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by solarius 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
"Its bad when one thing becomes two, one should not look for anything else in the way of the samurai. Its the same for anything else that is called a way. If one understands things in this manner, he should be able to hear about all ways and be more and more in accord with his own. "
From the movie Ghost Dog
2007-07-20 18:33:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the hallmarks of respect have to do with collegiality and dialogue rather than discussion. Some people can't do this.
2007-07-20 18:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by ccrider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I am forced to deal with people discussiong there faith IRL, I tend to be rather polite in my responces. I usualy say things like " well I am glad that you are happy in your faith" " or " to each his own" if we are haveing a debate IRL, I dont swear or yell I simply tell them my opposing points and leave it at that. I think being respectfull goes both ways, I give what i receive. if they treat me with respect I will do the same to them, IRL. online I will admit that I enjoy bashing but still usualy refrain from swearing.
2007-07-20 18:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by slo18 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The hallmarks of respect is people not witnessing to you to convert you.
2007-07-21 03:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by CC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Common courtesy, we all have it but some refuse to use it.
Respect is earned not given.
Disrespect is a tool used by people that don't want to be civil.
2007-07-20 18:39:23 · answer #11 · answered by TRACER ™ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋