My bf and I have a very happy relationship. We are always together expect during our work hours. However, he never seem to care or ask for sex and seem contend to just hug and look at me.
When we do have sex he seem normal with everything.
I dont think he is cheating because anytime I call him, he comes home right away. No one ever call him except me, and he spend most of his time doing research and proving mathmatical theories.
I thought men like sex and will ask for it...so Is it normal that he is not into sex?
2007-07-20 17:07:04 · 8 answers · asked by PeachyDay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here is the thing....not every guy likes sex, thats how it is. Those guys dont want a relationship based on sex. I am the same way. I think he wants to love you for who u are, not for what u do in the bedroom
2007-07-20 17:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by I am Noodles! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not pathetic. I know some young people who've had three relationships by the age of 17 and it has got them nowhere, back to zero. So you can have a stack of meaningless relationships or wait for a good one to come around so you don't get left with all the hangups. Don't jump into something with a freak because you're starting to panic. I really don't think a guy will find you a turnoff for not going out with someone before - where are you to start from after all? Hang in there, you're doing fine.
2016-05-19 00:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he is just insecure about initiating it. Some guys like their women to be assertive and go after it.
Some guys will not only ask for it, but will jump at the opp every chance they get.
Don't worry so much....and communicate.
2007-07-20 17:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by tito_swave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just sounds like sex isn't his top priority.
not all guys are the same.
don't worry about "normal." No one is "normal" in all aspects.
2007-07-20 17:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by kent_shakespear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unordinary, but why are you complaining?
Most girls hate guys who only wants sex.
2007-07-20 17:10:35 · answer #5 · answered by Miami305 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm i dont think its normal..
i mean wow.. what type of guy
doesnt want sex.
but if u love him then
just talk to him about it.
2007-07-20 17:12:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Maybe he wants you to initiate and he's passive?
2007-07-20 17:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just not interested, that is ok.
2007-07-20 17:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋