2007-07-20 16:56:02 · 19 answers · asked by Mikey L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing. Just hold her.
2007-07-20 16:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what she is crying for...but in most cases just hold her and listen to her will reconfort her, untill she is ready to talk.
If you are a friend, you seem like someone that cares, that is always good for a friendship of any kind.
You can bring her something sweet to eat or something you know she loves to eat, an icecream a donut, a cupcake, you should know.
Wait for her to open up to you and tell her things that come from your heart.
Good Luck
2007-07-21 00:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by MARIA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my bf tries to say something. he makes it worse cause hes a dumbass and always says the wrong thing. guys above that said not to say anything and to just hold the girl. totally right. when i'm pissed at my bf crying, that last thing i want to hear is his voice saying things to make me feel worse. he doesn't even do it on purpose. it just happens and unless your the perfect guy your just gonna make it worse. girls can be very knotty if you don't know how to untie the strings.
2007-07-21 04:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For sure don't say that you know what she's going through. Just wait, be with her and listen if she speaks. Don't try to solve her problems for her, and if you want to say anything just tell her that you can understand why she would be upset. Chances are she will feel up to talking later, but don't pressure her to talk when she's that upset. If she doesn't want to talk about it, don't make her feel uncomfortable about it.
2007-07-21 00:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetness 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what is she crying for? when im upset and crying, i like to get a hug from someone and i like them to say its going to be ok, even if it might not be, it helps when someone thinks it will be ok. its like they have faith, its just nice to hear. then its nice to hear them ask if there is anything they can do to help with the situation. after that it should be all down hill from there. once u know whats wrong, know how to help, and for them to know that u are there for them.
2007-07-21 00:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Zeana 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well do not say anything unless you want to cry
2007-07-20 23:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Kris A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation
2007-07-21 00:01:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont say anything. just hold her and kiss her softly, cuz most of the times, there is nothing you could say.
2007-07-20 23:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by Boo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends why she is crying.
But sometimes it mostly a matter of being there - not what you say.
2007-07-20 23:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by keezy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER
:its your fault.
your not that ugly
really ..i seen men with bigger noses!!
you sound nasty when you cry
.. start to laugh
2007-07-21 00:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋