about a month and a half ago, maybe two months, he asked a friend of his to get my sn. that night he imed me, and now we talk for hours everyday. finally, we hung out. i went to his house for about six or seven hours. then on the fourth i went to his camp with him, then we went and watched the fireworks together. and last night we hung out for the fifth time, and he still hasn't made any move. he won't even hold my hand. i know he respects me, and that might be why he's moving so slow. but come on...he doesnt even sit next to me when we watch a movie or something. last night when i was at his house though, we were just messing around and we decided to arm wrestle. well, we sat there basically just holding hands looking at each other for like five minutes before the actual arm wrestling even began. i know he likes me, and i like him, but i dont really want to make the first move. i think he might be the kind of guy that would like to do that himself. what should i do??? thanks=]
2007-07-20 16:26:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy, you invite him to make the first move. You got to show him that you'll be receptive to him, and any moves he might make. Otherwise, you might just have to make the moves yourself.
2007-07-20 16:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't a closer, in other words he doesn't know how to close the deal. Some guys are like that, they just don't know how to move in and it usually only comes with experience. You making the first move isn't bad in fact i can guarantee he's hoping you will make the first move.
2007-07-20 16:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by mosmits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the first move. He is just as scared and nervous as you are. Do it, I've been the guy in that situation too many times, ask if he "feels anything" between you guys because you have such a good time.
2007-07-20 16:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by me myslef 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best things are worth waiting for
2007-07-20 16:32:01 · answer #4 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he will never make the first move if he hasn't yet.. do both of you all a favor and just kiss him already...
2007-07-20 17:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Built4War 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it, because eventually if niether of you do it, you'll lose what you have, who cares who does it as long as it happens
2007-07-20 16:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by Southprince 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush it; enjoy his company while you've got it.
2007-07-20 16:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Malachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋