How do I move out, when he still acts like everything is o.k.?

Question

My boyfriend cheated on me less than a year ago and I just cant seem to get over it. The pain Seems to hurt more and more. Ive been depressed not wanting to let go of what we had; and for days I dragged on with this aching feeling. I finally told him that I was going to move out, mabye my trust will return back after I take some time to heal. Well, it's been three days since i have told him, and it's getting harder for me to move forward becuase he acts like everything is normal. I just dont have the engery to keep telling him and reminding him. What should I do, I need some kind of strength, it's been very hard to get to this point to really tell him what i need in my life and what Im going to do. What else do I need to do?

Answer 1

just move out it sounds as if you are the one stuck. you say you was gonna move and havent done so. so who has the problem

Answer 2

You move out by:
1) developing you plan to leave - do not discuss this with him. Talk about it only with a close friend or professional counselor
2) identify were you are going to move to
3) pack your bags
4) identify a time when he will not be home
5) load every thing that is yours into the vehicle that you will use to move
6) leave a note telling him you have left - but not where you have left to
7) lock the door on your way out
8) cry your eyes out
9) pull yourself together and move forward with your life.

Answer 3

Sounds like maybe you're waiting for him to beg you to stay?? Personally, I wouldn't attempt to get over infidelity - I'd have shot out the door like a bolt of lightning. Your strength will return when you haven't got this dragging you down

Answer 4

Pack and move out.

Answer 5

Hes callin your bluff or wants you to go......either way you should still leave.