A guy let me down. I feel inapropriate, not good enough, not interesting enough. I'm sad.
Before meeting him, my life was joyfull and I was happy, that probably attract his attention when he met me.
But this relashionship left me with a deficit of love, in my heart. It is painfull.
What can I do to feel better and get back on my feet quickly.. get back my confidence, pamper my heart so it will not hurt anymore..
2007-07-20 16:09:30 · 11 answers · asked by Azucar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just keep yourself busy. that worked best for me. and soon you will never even think about it
2007-07-20 16:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before the world knew you, it was colorless and weak.
The days were dim, the oceans rough, and the moon would never speak,
Before the world knew you, it was cold and mean.
The animals cried, birds did not fly and there wasn't a smile to be seen.
But when you were born, the Sun shown bright and the songs of life filled the air,
rainbows bent and touched the ground and angels started to care.
When you were born, the smile of life was brought to everyones face,
Men stood strong and and the ladies bowed,they were taught the true meaning of of grace.
But with an prick of a thorn, you thought they were gone?
They're not, because of YOU they'll ALWAYS be here.
2007-07-20 23:31:01 · answer #2 · answered by steelhwyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am goin through the same thing right now, I try to keep myself busy, which is very hard. Bc, we had sex before he dumped me, an feel like crap. Just realize its over, an as the days go by you'll get over it just dont take him back like I did, bc guess what Im in the same crap he put me in last year. yeah I feel dumb, but I know not to give my heart away at all, an we known each other 2years almost. try to forget about him, or find another guy to keep your mind off him. Send me an email if u wanna talk more, maybe we can support each other
2007-07-20 23:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by pixieprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe in yourself.
enjoy the small things in life. Take time to pamper yourself. Try not to think about him tooooo often. Engage yourself in activities you love doing.
spend time with family n friends...
its gonna be difficult in the beginning... but as time goes, u ll find urself not thinking bout him as often as you used tooo. n u ll also find urself becoming ur old self.
All the best
2007-07-20 23:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay i just had this same problem.
go hang out with all your friends as much as possible like you would before you were together.
dress up all hott and make you feel good about you.
go hit one some hotties and get hit on for an ego boost.
start talking to some new guys.
don't necessarily get with them.....just get back to normal.
concentrate on what you really need to do.
but it does take time....like a month....
2007-07-20 23:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by trish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try too keep busy, hang out with ur friends
do what u did before this guy and try not to think about him
2007-07-20 23:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by freakygirl145 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus your attention and energy on doing things with people who's company you enjoy and in expanding your own interests and skills
2007-07-20 23:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by keezy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take time to heal, do the things you use to do before you met him, smile and love yourself
2007-07-20 23:14:35 · answer #8 · answered by califababy25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So the guy let you down (disappointed?) you and you feel bad about yourself? Feel better about yourself and forget about him by keeping yourself busy.
2007-07-20 23:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by LK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing what you use to do before you met him.
2007-07-20 23:12:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋