nine mounths ago i feel inlove for the first time with a guy that i absoutly adore!hes got the cutest smile and the most beauitful eyes iv'e ever seen. heres the probem. this boy was mine. he was the first person that i really" loved"considering im only 14 years old. so i was new to the whole thing..it was the best mounth and 1/2 of my life!one evening i recieved a i/m from my bestfriend with my otherfriend i have no idea how but suddenly MY name poped up.and saying how my x bf didnt even like me. i didnt knoe what to do my heart was raceing and tears were crawling down my face.the only thing at that time was to me.since i was new to the relactionship thing, was to breakup with him ¬ try to talk it out with him.so i went and broke up with him.then he begged for me to go back out with him.i didnt i WENT OUT WITH ANOTER GUY.yeah call me stupid and dumb i was new2it. but here i am 9 mo later sobbing over it. i still have the cards he gave me 4my bday. i miss him but idk how 2tell him.
2007-07-20 15:27:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gosh, how many times have I been in this problem... well to start you admitted your mistake, that is a big thing. What you should do is talk to the guy you would like to be with and tell him what really happened, the entire truth, about what your friends said. Tell him that you still care about him, and see what happens from there. If he actually liked you or still does then hopefully things will work out! Good Luck!!!
2007-07-20 15:33:31 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not very clear, but it sounds like you said that you broke up with your boyfriend because some other people said he didn't like you. He didn't want to break up. You hurt him. You were not straightforward with him. When you are in a relationship with someone it is a good idea to communicate with them directly and not just assume that what others tell you is true. You could tell him you'd like to go out with him again and give him a chance to let you know whether he wants to. Don't play games and get other people involved though. Or better yet, why don't you just wait until you are actually old enough to date, maybe when you are 16 or 17? Wait until you are old enough to be honest, direct, and considerate of your date's feelings.
2007-07-20 22:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u must still like him if u kept a card he gave u, a piece of paper with writing nothing 2 special yet u kept it. its obvious u d=still like him. if yur still wit the guy u used 2 get back at the x-bf i suggest u admit u tell him yur true feelins and get back to him asap. your "friends" were probably just jealous that u actually had a guy and not them. coming from ta guy. i can gaurante he still likes u especially if he came 2 u after all that happened
2007-07-20 22:41:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, many guys are jerks and i am sure yu are a nice girl who deserves better. however, if this guy kalled yu stupid, he must have a reason. try to find out why. then when yu realize yu kan try to approach
2007-07-20 22:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by bluey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first loves are always the hardest but you have to move on because your just hurting yourself now
2007-07-20 22:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him up and tell him straight forward that u still lik him but first ask him if he still likes u caz if he dont dont tell him
2007-07-20 22:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋