2007-07-20 15:10:22 · 11 answers · asked by Scenar H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know you wanted woman only, but let me shed some light on the situation. I'm speaking from personal experience. (myself). I am one of those guys, I loved my ex very much, but was unable to show it. Sometimes life forces people to put up a wall, a barrier. You become very comfortable having guarded yourself for so long. It becomes a challenge to overcome that obstacle. If you love him, take him by the, hand and teach him how to show his love. Be patient with him. He will learn; once he opens his heart you, you'll be on cloud nine. Plus, sometimes you can show your love, just by the way you look at someone. Look into his eyes, see what he is telling you........
2007-07-20 15:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just aren't very talkative and don't feel a need to share the details of their day. Also, men are (to varying degrees) conditioned to keep their feelings inside and not show vulnerability.
The bottom line is, you can't force him to be more conversational or open by nagging him -- this will just have the opposite effect. Stop probing and let him open up on his own terms. Also, consider discussing things on a cerebral rather than emotional level -- if he's more a thinker than a feeler, that might engage him more.
But, if he's REALLY not making an effort, it could mean he's not happy in the relationship.
2007-07-20 22:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually means he doesn't love you enough to make the effort to talk to you.
2007-07-20 22:13:45 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he thinks the relationship should be conducted on his terms: mainly that you are there for him whenever he wants you to be, but he does not have to reciprocate, and you are being either too pushy or not trusting enough if you don't accept these terms. I'd tell him (and I have actually done this) to take his "love" elsewhere.
2007-07-20 22:17:22 · answer #4 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he is either very stupid, very boring, or very insecure. Any way you look at it, he isn't the one. If you can't talk to him, all the love in the world means nothing!
2007-07-20 22:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means that he doesn't want to get dumped by you, but he really isn't interested anymore. I think that if he really loved you, he'd be willing to talk, wanting to spend his time with you.
2007-07-20 22:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shadows K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking is over-rated...it sounds to me like he's really comfortable with you, so much so that he doesn't feel the need to fill the empty space with empty words...
2007-07-20 22:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by hunnygril 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just likes listening to you more than talking about himself, he could be shy or not very good at conversation
2007-07-20 22:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by ran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be lazy; or just not a talker...or just doesn't know how to talk "to girls".
2007-07-20 22:14:06 · answer #9 · answered by Malachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means hes bullshitting you so you so he can just get laid.
2007-07-20 22:16:35 · answer #10 · answered by Beautifully Me ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋