My x left a year ago when his ex wife signed the financial agreement for their divorce She gave it him to post and he said he didnt want to and said he wanted to stay living with her Now i have texted his ex saying he loves me but is scared of her and also that he is with her for money but really wants me I have told her we have met and made love He tells me he cant come to see me over night as she wont like it I know he wants to come but is scared of her We have met a few times at lunch times I am positive he really loves me so what should I do now? I dont understand why she is with him when they never make love and she must know he really wants to be with me and is just using her and lying to her Why would she want to stay with him why wont she let him be free to be with me? My kids think I am insane and he doesnt love me but I cam tell he does by the way he talks and holds me and doesnt ask for sex when we meet Any advice on how to persuade him to do what he really wants
2007-07-20 14:54:47 · 2 answers · asked by stevie k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He IS doing what he wants. Leave him alone. Maybe he loves you, maybe he doesn't, but his actions tell you that he is either too weak to leave her or lying to you. Grow up! Your kids are smarter than you are.
2007-07-20 15:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is staying with him for the same reason that you are waiting on him. HE IS doing what he wants to do...money is not the only motivation he has for staying with her. Why would you "beg" for his release from his x-wife? Sounds like you and the x-wife would be better off without this so called "man" who is the sc_ _wing the both of you. Talk about having your cake and eating it to. You really need a wake up call.
2007-07-20 22:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by MEDUSA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋