This kid at my school really likes me. He has actually asked me out several times. He keeps asking me to the movies and I allways make up excuses insted of just telling him I dont like him. We were friends and I might have gave him the wrong impression and now I just dont know what to say to him to make him stop asking me out. I feel really bad about it too. One day he told me to call him back and tell him if I was alloud to go to the movies and I didnt because I didnt know what to tell him, and the next day he sent me this email and he was like "Um okay?! Why did'nt you call me back? I was planing on going" I just dont want him to go on thinking i have this big crush on him when i only consider him a friend.
2007-07-20 14:28:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple. You just tell him that you are not interested in that way. Some people don't take hints. He sounds like he is one of them. You are going to have to be blunt with him. He will have his feelings hurt, but he will get over them. It is best you avoid all contact with him for awhile after you sit him down and tell him the bad news.
2007-07-20 14:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the Let's Just Be Friends speech. I know, this is like the nuclear option of disinterest, but I think it's the only way to go under these circumstances.
2007-07-20 21:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Mike M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to loose him as a friend then you have to set him straight before he gets fed up with you! you could just keep like saying your friends like if he asks you to the movies just be like sure can we bring some other ppl, or like or just be like as friends?? cause maybe he just wants to go to the movies as friends. or you could always (not to nice but works) bring up the person you like and talk about them a lot.
2007-07-20 21:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by unloved 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him in plain language "I do not want to date you" It may hurt at first but it will be better for both of U in the long run.
2007-07-20 21:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by bhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him directly that you like him as a friend, but no more than that.
Be firm and don't give in.
2007-07-20 21:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly that. Your sorry but you just dont feel the same way.
2007-07-20 21:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by Toria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him. be like " please dont take this the wrong way or anything, but all i want us to be is friends, is that alright with u?" and if not then tell him gently that u dont really find him that attractive or anything like that.
2007-07-20 21:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Oranges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you arn't really intrested in him that way!
2007-07-20 21:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by SiLlY GiRl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋