I think I am attracted to girls much more beautiful than I am comparatively. I like the kind of girls you see in tv and movies, but in my mind I know these are idealized unrealistic portrayals. How can I convince myself to "settle" for more realistic girls who I might think are less attractive physically. Can these normal girls become more attractive to me if I start a relationship with them?
I'm really confused. Why must the media convince me I want women that aren't real and that I know I cant have?
Am I even making sense?
2007-07-20 14:21:43 · 11 answers · asked by sspence966 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You shouldn't listen to what the media says you should like. You have to know inside your heart who you feel is a good person, and not in terms of their appearance. Try connecting with girls that are not as attractive but are kind and down to earth. You don't need a girl that looks like a supermodel, but a girl who will care about you for you and who will love you for that. A girl can be really attractive but you may have nothing in common with her. If you go after girls that are not supermodels but have natural beauty, such as a kind heart and good morals, then you may find that you will have more in common with these girls. Don't listen to the media, find the girl that is wonderful on the inside and who will care for you. You will be surprised how much happier you will be if you find someone that is less artificial on the outside and more genuine on the inside. Good luck.
2007-07-20 14:30:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, you are making sense. And yes you will find "normal" girls more attractive if you start a relationship w/ them. Just try getting to know them. I've found that my opinion of overall attractiveness shifts A LOT based on whether or not I like her personality. I've met girls w/ great bodies who don't look so hot after I find out what a ***** she is. I've also met girls who didn't really catch my eye at first, but became attractive when I found out she was the queen of everything cool.
2007-07-20 21:29:27 · answer #2 · answered by asig33882003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, the girls on TV and in the movies are regular normal girls. My best friend is famous, everyone knows her. Sometimes I go on photo shoots with her, and she looks nothing like the final outcome of the picture. Her skin isn't flawless and her hips aren't that skinny until the photo aritists finish working their magic. Also, don't let the media confuse you. You have a mind of your own and are capable of making your own choices. Remember, having a connection with someone is the best feeling you will ever have.
2007-07-20 22:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by anthro_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making sense but you need to realize.
You can't tell what kind of a girl they are by the way they look.
Those kind of girls are usually so into themselves that they don't care about anyone else.
You should find a average girl who is beautiful inside as she is outside. One that has feeling for other people , not just her self. There are lots that are beautiful inside and out.
I wish you luck with finding a good girl and you will love each other with all your hearts.
2007-07-20 21:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by eviechatter 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
just try going out with a regular girl and see how you like it. You'll probably find that she's lots of fun. There is more to a girl than looks. I had a problem with guys, they didn't want to go out with me because i wasn't what they would call a perfect beauty. But then i met my husband and he fell in love with me because of me. He loved my smile and from there he fell in love and then he found out what a lucky guy he is for finding me.
Most of the times girls who are THAT good looking have no personality whatsoever and are b*****. They are full of themselves and they think people should practically worship them because they are so good looking. Do you really want a girl like that?
2007-07-20 21:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by jillinebinny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got issues; quit watching the TV and find out what girls are really like and who they are -- you might be surprised at what really turns you on.
2007-07-20 21:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Malachi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, ur making sense, its justnot as easy as u might think. u have to give it time, then u will come to appreciate the girls around u. ( btw stop watching so much TV if that is what u r attracted to)
2007-07-20 21:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Oranges 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't agree with your perception on this.
I find many "average" girls sexy and attractive, and many of the models and high-profile women plastic and fake (although this is not true for all of them, as many are beautiful).
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2007-07-20 21:26:48 · answer #8 · answered by canx_mp058 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
noo, but, hollywood are just liars, don't believe in them , they're just trying to pride into your life and try to make alot of money using those things.......
Don't get the tv and movies confuse ya, just go watever you want to do, be your normal self, and everything will be ok......
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-07-20 21:27:29 · answer #9 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question directly, if all you can see is superficial outward appearance, then your standards are far too LOW.
2007-07-20 21:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋