Most women say: "Men should be kind and loving and change everything and be nice and do this and do that" Then when a man acts this way (aka a p*#sy) the women will usually get bored with him and leave, because he's a pushover. Every girl will tell you that they want a "nice guy", but when they break up with "nice guys" it's because "they just didn't do it for me" or "clingy wuss". Yet, I know girls that will continuously cry and subject themselves to abusive behavior from certain guys. I know girls that live off their current "nice" boyfriends, yet still talk to and see their "jerk" boyfriends.
2007-07-20 12:34:46 · 19 answers · asked by goodman6079 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the bad boys break your heart, and we know it, so we say we want a good guy. and its usually true, but it can't hurt to have a little excitement sometimes. i mean, guys should be nice most of the time, but every once in a while, a girl likes to see that they are strong enough to take care of them. andd, they can show her a good time ; )
2007-07-20 12:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by hiddgirl22 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For the nice guy the women usually are looking for the stability aspects of a man, but for the bad boy it is one some like the challenge, not knowing what they are going to do next. So for the nice guy I guess it is better to be some where in between that way the nice guy does not have to compete with the bad boy so much. -Good Luck
2007-07-20 19:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by blonde_6374 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We do want nice guys, nice guy doesn't have to mean wuss though. Most guys mis interpret being nice to mean I have to act like a whimp to get a girl.
Not all women like mean guys, I don't for instance.
I think more men should stop pretending to be nice just to et in girls pants.
It's unfair to point fingers at girls for not dating nice guys. Whe they should be better friends and not whie to get into our pants on the first place.
We can't bang every nice guy that comes along. Those girls are called "sluts" and even nice guys make fun of those.
Real nice guys would never play up the friend shtick to get in bed.
2007-07-20 19:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nik 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just look for a nice girl who appreciates you and leave these other messed up girls alone. Just because you've had bad experiences doesn't mean all women are like you described. You will probably meet someone who is tired of bad boys. Go with an older lady and see how it goes.
2007-07-20 19:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have often wondered about their fascination over the "bad boys" and all I can come up with is that they must actually "like" to be treated like dirt. Because a "nice guy" would show her respect, affection and attention. And it's true, we nice guys do get kicked to the curb for those disrespectful jerks that treat them like sh*t. Good luck dude.
2007-07-20 19:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by mcbobly2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any woman who says they want the nice guy are full of crap. They're lying.
Why do they lie so much?
I don't know. They don't even know what they want.
Mentally, they say they want the nice guy.
But physically and emotionally, they go for the @$$holes.
You'll get alot more girls by acting like a smooth operator, but a prick too.
2007-07-20 19:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sweet Lou Singer 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't write off All girls as like this. i Only like nice guys.. and they always dump Me.. because i'm not some bad *** aggressive girl. it's not just the girls who fall for the bad boys. and i certainly Don't fall for that. i actually Do fall for the nice guys and could never get bored of them. now if i'd actually ever Had one... geez, because when i fall for them they Seem nice and amazing, but then they dump me. so obviously they are bad in a way. but when i fall for them they are not. bad boys=lust. for girls. and nice guys=a future. maybe find some girls who are more Mature. girls like to feel bad themselves is probably why.. it gives them a thrill. but then the thrill always wears off anyways.. those are the types of girls who let themselves be taken advantage of, and you shouldn't want them anyways.
2007-07-20 19:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by sweetaction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a bad boy who's turn good guy, he has the bad boy look which I like but is wonderful inside no he not P***y he my protector which I love I feel very secure with him and I know he will not leave me for another woman. nice guys a nice but most girls don't feel secure with them in a safe kinda way I'm talking about someone who will protect them from harm.
2007-07-20 19:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just because you are "nice" doesn't make you a pushover. You need to be caring and devoted. At the same time, you need to have your own hobbies and be interesting. Be smart. Make her wonder. Fascinate her. Whatever you do, don't be dull. Those are the "nice" guys that lose.
p.s. The jerks lose in the end. No matter what.
2007-07-20 19:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by buttah 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Every girl wants a loving and caring man. But at times, a girl wants a "bad boy" inside closed doors. That doesn't mean a man can't be charming and bad at the same time. BUT...You only find a man like that once in a great while.
2007-07-20 19:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋