2007-07-20 12:05:40 · 21 answers · asked by MissayQ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it all depends on personal preference.
First of all.. he better damnwell discuss it with you before actually bringing a girl to your house.
**important: you decide who TOGETHER. if he "suggests" someone, thats a red flag for sure.
personally for me, i wouldnt mind another joining me and my love, male or female. However (and this is huge) it is CRUCIAL that he and i would have to pick whomever it would be and agree, and have boundries of some sort. It is crucial to both be fully 100% comfortable with it.
Dont do it if you arent comfortable with it. Dont sacrifice yourself and your feelings to give him a little pleasure. That could put a huge wedge between you and your boyfriend. Its important to remember that you would be bringing a girl as a third wheel to you and him. Not adding you to the two of them, or adding him to you and the other woman. Its very imporant to talk about it and make sure that the two of you are the focus.
I know in my personal case... my boyfriend isnt comfortable with it. So even though i may want to experiment that way, i know he isnt comfortable welcoming anyone else in the bedroom. Therefor, i respect and love him, so its not that big of a deal. He is more important to me than anything. I mean, perhaps in the future he may change his mind, but its his call.
2007-07-20 12:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends a lot on what he wants. If he feels like he can be honest with you without there being a fight you can ask a man any question and he will give you a direct answer. I would want my girl to dress in certain clothes and then tie her up, gag her, etc., so if she asked that's exactly what I'd tell her. There is very little mystery here. Do whatever turns him on and it will get better.
2016-05-18 22:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it all depends on how u feel. if u dont like the idea then tell him and then come up with some fun things to do to spice things up in the bedroom. or if u like the idea then go for it. good luck and either way u go have fun with it. if u need to talk e-mail me.
2007-07-20 12:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would wonder why my love isn't enough for him. They use this ploy in the name of spicing up the bedroom when it really means I want sex with someone else and if you give me permission I won't have to go hide behind your back.
He's a loser...dump him.
2007-07-20 12:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it would depend on your.. how do you feel about it.. are you up to having sex infront of your bf with another woman.. your the one that has to deal with it after it happens... you might try to spice it up yourself.. do some different things.. before you try another woman.. but all guys would love to have 2 girls at the same time.. that is normal..
2007-07-20 12:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may want to start off slow by using other methods to spice things up... check out www.below-the-belt.com
2007-07-21 08:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this depends on if you think that you could handle the sight of him with someone else? and the insecurities of thinking that he is continuing to sleep with that person when you're not around, convincing himself that it's ok since you told him he could before. I think it would take a strong woman to handle that but if you think you can then go for it. Remember that this could be something that you fight over for years if you agree but don't really want it.
2007-07-20 12:17:30 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bring another guy into the bed room that heats things up evan more
2007-07-20 12:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to go to hell. and find another guy worth talking to. because if your love life needs spicing up, your with the wrong person
2007-07-20 12:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by thou_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a very personal decision that only you can make. I, personally would have none of it. Its me or the door. We don't share when it comes to the most sacred act two people can do.
2007-07-20 12:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by shine_radiantstar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋