Any tips to make it more...hmm....interesting?
2007-07-20 11:49:06 · 38 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Use a steel belted condom. Why would you want to give it up to a guy who has had so many partners? Just asking no offense to that. I mean wouldn't you want to save it for someone who has had a little more restraint in that department. Think about it. It's not the most important thing to a relationship. I Mean don't do it if you are not ready.
2007-07-20 11:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by loveistobeloved 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Usually your first time is never "interesting" or enjoyable, is more like "being lost not really knowing what to do, not sure what to think or say".
Of course this is not true for everyone, if you are completely in love (which I doubt because of the nature of your question) it might be fulfilling and very emotional, however it could never be compared to the sex a couple of say 5 year of relationship has.
My advice to you is: make sure you are ready for sex. Having sex is a big deal; it changes you physically and emotionally. Once you have sex it becomes very easy to do it again, and again, and again… and you could end up making very bad choices. You say this person you’re having sex with is VERY experienced, my question is: is he very healthy? Make sure he doesn’t have any STD, this first time could ruin your life.
If you are really in love and ready for sex than just be yourself, enjoy whatever happens and know that sex only gets better with time.
2007-07-20 12:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Calis_Shygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here is a tip from experience WAIT!!!!!! you dont know what your doing and his idea of experience probably isnt much either the best tip is to wait wait until its is something special i promise you will remeber that moment for the rest of your life dont screw it up. you are going to give your self to him ok do you understnad what that means you will give a part of you that is very special and it will probably mean absolutly nothing to him think about he is considered experienced how many girls has he been experiencing with? you will mean nothing to him. Please I am begging you to think about what you are going to do!!!1
2007-07-20 11:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by cwilsonhappylife 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah make sure he doesn't have any STD's and use protection! Make sure your not gonna regret it later.
After that well then all I can say is be up for anything..... let him know what feels good to you while he is doing it to you and what you don't like when he is doing it to you. Have an open mind and yeah be up to exploring new things be up for anything like I said. Who knows he might just not deliver like he leads on and you may be disappointed....lol jk.
2007-07-20 11:56:50 · answer #4 · answered by Arlene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? Either way a REALLY experienced guy has probably been with more than enough girls to make you think about STD's.
2007-07-20 11:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be verbal! Make sure to let him know how well he is pleasing you. Make plenty of fun noise and squirm around plenty. Ask him for a turn on top then after a few minutes rotate around facing his feet and ride him into the sunset.
Have fun!
2007-07-20 11:53:34 · answer #6 · answered by handyman7799 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Relax! Experience can mean nothing if you are so stressed you can't feel anything below your nose! just go with the flow and hopefully the guy will know that your pleasure comes first!
have fun!
2007-07-20 11:53:05 · answer #7 · answered by Pickle123 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Not to sound selfish but you need to worry about yourself. A guy will almost always get his, so you concentrate on you. Chances are he will appreciate that you know what you want, and wonder what other surprises you have hidden; and if for some reason he doesn't care for your actions then you shouldn't waste anymore time with him. Who wants a man who cares only about himself?
2007-07-20 11:56:18 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you make it seem like if its just a one night stand, since you didnt say 'boyfriend' just 'a really experienced guy' all i have to say is 'are you gonna give it up with a guy that's f***** alot of other chikcs?' that would be so low and sad....
2007-07-20 11:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by i ♥ alexi laiho 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's your first time, you'll definitely find it interesting.
And if he can't find you interesting as you are, knowing your lack of experience, then his "experience" has jaded him and doesn't count for much. Even if it isn't his first time, it is his first time with YOU, and that should make it special enough for him.
2007-07-20 11:54:09 · answer #10 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋