My boyfriend and his friends went to a trip. He really wanted me to come with him, but I couldn't. He was really up-set. Now I'm thinking about surpising him: my father could take me to where my boyfriend and his friends are. How stupid is my idea? Won't he be intimidated by my father? Won't I seem desperate or something? Should I tell him if I choose to go or just surprise him? What do you think?
2007-07-20 11:18:19 · 17 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him know first cause suprises like that are never good just call him and ask him if the invitation is still good and tell him about ur dad taking and then see what he says. Unless u think he's doing something bad then if u want u can try and catch him at it. So call him if u trust him suprise him if u don't.
2007-07-20 11:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it seems the bf left already, I would surprise him. Have you dad stick around just to make sure you are received well. He should be thrilled though if he really wanted you to come.
2007-07-20 18:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you couldn't go the first time why would you want to surprise him now, I think he would be pissed because here you could't go and he was up set and now you can? are you playing with his emotions? just wait for him at home and have a small surprise for him when he gets back
2007-07-20 18:25:05 · answer #3 · answered by honeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's with a bunch of guys, don't. He'll be surprised yes, but not the kind of surprised you want.
2007-07-20 18:22:22 · answer #4 · answered by Chris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose to go. Having your father take you will only start problems.
2007-07-20 18:20:42 · answer #5 · answered by Cassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the surprise route would be a lot more fun.
2007-07-20 18:22:35 · answer #6 · answered by Michael H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have decided you want to go then tell him rather than involving your father.
2007-07-20 18:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by Patty G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, watever you want to do, watever your comfortable with......
You shouldn't ask people what you should do, do watever you feel like, and most importantly, ask yourself what you want your bf wants out of you, if you really like your bf, then you could suprise himm, or watever........
But do watever you want, do watever you feel like doingg.......
probably NOTT the best advice, but this is from mee speaking out that you should do watever........
I hoped I helped
Good Luck!
2007-07-20 18:28:54 · answer #8 · answered by TempoBronze124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your idea is not stupid!! He'll be so suprise that he wont even mind your dad! You should just make sure that you know exactly where he'll be so when you get there he'll be there..
2007-07-20 18:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go. Maybe seeing that you r dads willing to do that for y'all to be together is a good thing maybe he will have more respect for your dad.
2007-07-20 18:25:01 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Nolan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋