My bf and I are in a distance relationship since 2005 we see each other almost every two months. Before he was very in touch with me, we talked like 2 hours every day. Also we talked with me about have open comunication with no lies to make rich our relationship. Everything was going perfect. We reached the point of make plans to move myself with him. But Since a couple months ago i feel everything different. A lot of times he doesn't answer the phone neither doesn't reply my text messages. You know when you love someone you want to know about this person every minute. I hate when the day goes and i dont receive any signal of life from him. I feel like i'm nobody to him and really it's hurting me so hard because i love you. Also he gets mad when i try to find answers why he acts like that. He already have a baby daughter with another woman and he says that i need to understand he needs to give his time to the girl. I do also tell him that his behavior is hurting me... i dont know...
2007-07-20 09:12:44 · 19 answers · asked by My ♥ Is In The City By The Bay! 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to simply explain to him that you understand he has a daughter and he needs to take care of her but he also needs to take care of your relationship. If he gets angry when you tell him that, i know it's going to be hard but you got to let him go. Think of it this way, if he treats you like this now, think about when you're older he'll be worse and these will be the first days of the worst days for the rest of your life. God has intended someone better for you. Go find him girl!
2007-07-20 09:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by nathalie6smile 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
>A lot of times he doesn't answer the phone neither doesn't reply my text messages.<
And he gets mad at you when you try to discuss it.
He's checked out of the relationship. I suggest you do the same. His daughter is just the excuse. He certainly had time to talk with you for 2 hours previously. Even people with kids find a few minutes a day to be in contact.
2007-07-20 09:20:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. X 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt for a while but move on with your life. You never know whats around the corner, try to keep a good attitude, visit with your friends and make new ones, don't get in a hurry to get into another relationship when the right guy comes along you'll know it.
2007-07-20 09:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rahouel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do I say this w/o sounding like a ***** like the rest of everyone else here that wants to hurt your feelings...
Do you think something is wrong???
If he has avoided you at all cost, chances are it got too real for him when you two planned to live together. If you feel like something is wrong chances are something is wrong. DOn't fret over it I am sure you are a very great girl/woman. You can find a better man. Good Luck to you. Please move on because a man who won't give you their time is not worth yours.
2007-07-20 09:22:29 · answer #4 · answered by Brittney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey but hes just kinda over you
Long distance relationships are hard to maintain.
If he really cared about you he would call you a few times everyday, even if its just to say hi and thats all.
2007-07-20 09:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to move on girl. Before you find your self in a Jerry Springer situation. Beeep Beeep
2007-07-20 09:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by mazeman25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um, break it off with him,
hes not answering yyou all of a sudden and you dont hear from him frequently.
find out what hes up too, and if he says nothing hes lying.
and your not being as smart as you could, being in this relationship. who knows what hes doing/ he could be seeing someone else
you need to have a conversation with him somehow.
2007-07-20 09:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Claire=] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that he's over you, If he's not picking up his phone or answering your texts. I mean you never know he be cheating on you, since it is long distance.
2007-07-20 09:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by A$HL3Y! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of he's in simple terms being a splash egocentric with regards to the entire subject - do not circulate blaming him nevertheless. are not getting worked up approximately it nevertheless, which may be the worst component to do. anybody gets below the impact of alcohol, and once you're below the impact of alcohol - the drink controls you.
2016-12-14 14:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and find someone local. It is time to move on. Wake up and smell the roses.
2007-07-20 09:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Debra P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋