6 weeks so far when we broke up, we had a serious thing, we were talking about marriage. She went to another city and we only had contact through myspace, email, phone. She created a new myspace with a title "Killing off the past and coming back to life." Its been five weeks without me calling her and things like that. I told my friend to tell her if she would like to be my friend, a week ago, and she said in an email "Yeah, its not a big deal, I know hes a good person, besides, I already added him, tell him hello, bye."
It was a lie, she did not add me on her myspace. 4 days after that, I added her, and she accepted me. Ok, its been 4 days that we know that we are in each others profile, but we have not started talking. Im going to break the ice, what should I say after all this time? I dont want to ask her how shes doing, something else.
What would you write?
2007-07-20 09:05:32 · 9 answers · asked by Jacob S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't write anything.
It's time to move on...
2007-07-20 09:09:38 · answer #1 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a girl and the best thing to fo is to wait for her to do it....i think that the only reason she didn't add u to her myspace is because she doesn't want to so don't waste your time obsessing over this girl that doesn't even want you to know her. Also when she says its not a big deal its because it is and she might not want to be your friend. Somethings in life is just better left that way.......i know there is someone else out there and although your a dying to be with her again she might not feel the same way so leave the ice unbroken and wait! time will tell.
2007-07-20 16:11:09 · answer #2 · answered by Evie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what "Killing off the past and coming back to life" mean? Sounds like she is confused from tell your friends that she did add you to not adding you to then adding you. If this phrase on her page has anything to do with you, maybe you should give it sometime. Make her want you back. I'm sure there were some positive things that she will miss about you.
2007-07-20 16:13:53 · answer #3 · answered by CraftyG's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I sort of wouldn't write because of the drama and if she didn't add you when she forst said she did then she doesn't deserve you. By the way I'd like to say good job not calling her after 5 weeks that was the first step to recovery but you dove back in there. I'd say let her go and find someone better.
2007-07-20 16:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by nathalie6smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget writing or contact of any kind. Move on with your life, forgive and forget. Get out and make new friends, get a life. Occupy your time with other things and get off the computer.. it becomes addictive... so do not look back. MOVE ON.
2007-07-20 16:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by mahalga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't write anything... It sounds like she's moved on in her new life and I think her new title says it all.....
I know the truth hurts, but leave the ball in her court..... if it's one thing a girls hates, its a guy who sounds needy and desperate.
I'm sure you're a nice guy, so find someone that deserves and wants your attention, and move on... and let the past be the past.
Good luck
2007-07-20 16:10:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if I feel like she doesn't want to be bothered
I won't write anything....
isn't it a liltle awkward 4u to talk to your x if it looks like she is moving on?
Now, if you want to be friends with her, give her TIME!.
but if your reason is to bring her back, I don't think tha'ts a good idea.
you have to move on....!
coz I think she really wan'ts to move on.
so just leave her alone.
2007-07-20 16:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BYE, off to get a life, maybe you should too.
2007-07-20 16:10:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rick J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't go over bord on this. its not that hard just say: hi thanks for the add you all does packing? then you can go from there
2007-07-20 16:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Oren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋