A few weeks ago, this guy asked me if I would go out with him tonight to have some drinks with his friends that were coming into town. Well, I hadn't really heard from him all week and when I did he never mentioned going out tonight. We've gone out a lot in the past few weeks but he always seems to have to much on his mind and sometimes I wonder if he's fully "there". Since I hadn't heard about tonight I made other plans with this guy that I've also been going out with once in a while. The first guy randomly showed up today and asked about tonight. I told him I had already made different plans. He is really upset about it but I don't know if I should break plans with the 2nd guy and go with the 1st or keep my plans with the 2nd. HELP ME!
2007-07-20 08:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the guy who you have the most fun with, and the guy who makes you feel better! :)
2007-07-20 08:57:42 · answer #1 · answered by baby kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just go out with the 2nd guy. He (the 1st guy) never seemed like he was interested in the date until today. You already made plans with the second. Just go with him
2007-07-20 08:55:05 · answer #2 · answered by NEveR ThE LesS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For this case I would just go out with the second guy because you had set plans. And in the future if you are unsure about a date with a guy ask him, bring it up so that you can plan accordingly! Have Fun!
2007-07-20 08:56:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you had not heard from him so you figured the plans were off you never ment to hurt him. But that you will go out with him another time.
2007-07-20 08:55:07 · answer #4 · answered by gizmo0013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would stick with the plans I have now.
It's unfortunate about the first guy, but if you cancel and remake, you may end up at home watching old movies on TMC.
2007-07-20 08:57:08 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on 2 ur first plan. It is just not OK for him 2 expect u r just waiting ready for his call & have nothing else in ur life but waiting on him!
2007-07-20 08:57:06 · answer #6 · answered by mallika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep the plans you made first.
2007-07-20 08:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since u made plans w/ the first u should stick w/ him and hav u evr considered askin him wats on his mind all the time b honest w/ him
2007-07-20 08:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by lovelylady7950 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you did accept guy #1's offer first. If it were me I would honor that. That's just my opinion
2007-07-20 08:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ditch them both to stand in line to buy the new Harry Potter book.
2007-07-20 08:56:22 · answer #10 · answered by Window 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋