Why do guys only date skinny girls that dress slutty?
I am a majoy sport chick, and am bigger boned and
have bigger muscles, basically i have a guy build.
but i have a pretty face, and an awesome personality...
so why don't guys like me more than a friend?
I mean, right now i am totally into somone, but I doubt
he likes me and well, to be honest, i am worried that even if
he does like me, he wouldn't ask me out....
Why are guys like this?
I would appreciate both sex answers, thanks. Just please help me out.
2007-07-20 08:29:22 · 15 answers · asked by amber 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey,
thanks for all the comments.
and just to clear the air,
i didn't mean that all girls were sluts.
lol. so yah sorry, but
thanks. you all helped ALOT
2007-07-20 09:19:25 · update #1
Most, don't really care... it's just that looks and sex appeal attracts. Personality keeps. The best partner is one who is friendly and cares and who has a smile. The most important thing is to be honest and up front with people. Be yourself. Over the long run, being your self will attract and keep the best kind of partner. Notice the really good people. How they act. What they stand for. Notice they aren’t popular, but the do have a circle of friends, generally real friends. Shallowness eventually repels and sets you up for a player. And being yourself is easier than being artificial. You might be hanging out with the wrong people, guys and girls. Hang out with the people that "into" things.... clubs, and things.
2007-07-20 08:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know how old you are but i'm 20, and i am thick too. I have a curvier body and a pretty face. I always wanted to look like those skinny girls but i never did and i never will, i'm just not built like that. The older you get the more u will realise that guys are not into Super thin chicks. Also the slutty girls have more bf's because young guys want the pootang and those are the girls who give it up, or they look like they might give it up. They want a girl that everyone is gonna wana f*ck. I was always quiet in HS and dressed chill (jeans, tshirt, flipflops) i never thot any guys liked me, then when i got a bf, like all these guys were like "yeah i always thot you were hot", and "yeah i noticed you alot".. Just give it a few years and you'll realise that those girl ain't got sh!t on you.
2007-07-20 15:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a skinny guy myself and there is nothing wrong with a buff but not too buff girl. If your personality is good then you should be straight. If a guy only look at girls who are skinny then they are shallow I look for the quality in a persons personality. It's harder to find a girl with a great personality the it is to find one with a hot body. trying to find the right girl/guy is hard and will always be. hey girls like me as a friend and nhting more so it has nothing to do with you build.
2007-07-20 15:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by dnt_bthr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey just cuz a girl is thin and wears tight jeans doesn't mean shes a slut or tryin to be one thank you very much lol....maybe you should say your goin to play sports w/ the guys or hang out w/ them but show up in a skirt maybe some make up and a shirt that shows just the right amout of your boobs say your so sorry you had to canncel but your phone broke so you couldn't call them you just stopped by or say you can only stay for half hour or so...then maybe they will see your more then just "one of the guys" make sure your crush is there and give him one of those i really want you looks so he wonders about it all night
good luck no more hating on the thin chicks tho lol all aren't sluts lol
2007-07-20 15:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like skinny girls, don't get me wrong. I'm not sure about other guys but I find sporty girls (especially with pretty faces) to be very attractive and a bit exotic, at least around where I live. I would definately date someone of your build and description, so don't give up and definately don't doubt yourself! go after this guy! I would say that if he isnt interested its not because you aren't attractive enough for his standards... I'd guess he's intimidated :)
2007-07-20 15:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jack B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be scared to show your sex appel dont think of him leaving you dont focus on how to impress him, be your self enjoy the moment enjoy song dance music sports nature etc etc, indirectly show your sex appel by dressing 70 % sporty and 30 % sexy, and I guranty not only you will get him but any one you like and want, although it can be temprare one month perment for a year or life long ,SweetHeart I am just like you ,may be 90% in nature like you, I am not skinny neither want to be skinny although till 19 year old i was, I am a Tomboy Sporty Girl now 29, I usuly make boys crazy, they fall in love with me and at that point they cant think of anything else, I give them sex pleasure, attention, make them jealous, they love me and hate me too simultaniously, but some leave me and I leave some of them, then i cry for sometime and then start enjoying new ones,
2007-07-23 01:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys ask girls who dress sluty because they think the can get them easily, (sex). But dont worry if boys dont ask you out because there are intimidated by you or nervous. And another reason maybe they know you are not the type of girl that would give it up easily and are not looking for real relationships, just sex. The right boy will ask you out with good intentions, give it time.
2007-07-20 15:38:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy once told me that guys dont necessarily prefer skinny girls, but they like confident girls. And most skinny girls are very confident. If you have an awesome personality and you know it then show it alot of guys love a girl with confidence!!!
2007-07-20 15:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with the kind of guy your interested in. Because I know a lot of guys who make fun of those kind of girls.
I think maybe the key word is "date", they may date(sleep with) certain types more often, just because lets face it, those girls are easy. When guys are younger they aren't looking for long term relationships.
2007-07-20 15:41:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be surprised to know that most guys don't just date skinny girls that dress slutty. Maybe that's what you notice most, but it's just not true.
If you're really into this guy but afraid he won't ask you out, ask HIM out. Perhaps he DOES like you but is not sure how you feel about him and he doesn't want to be rejected.
Most guys biggest fear when it comes to women is flat out cold rejection.
2007-07-20 15:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by duker918 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋