i have this guy friend that i met while he had a girlfriend we talked alot and hes really nice but i see him as a friend the first few days we talked after i met him he always told me i was cute flirted with me and asked me for pictures..if you know what i mean after i kept saying no he started talking to me like a normal person (finally) he would rub his girlfriend in my face i didnt really care i just didnt understand why he would bother a few days before he left for vacation he started acting kinda shady
he left for vacation and then came back about 3 days ago now he doesnt even talk to me anymore he used to message me the minute he got on...i liked talking to him as a normal person...whats his problem?
2007-07-20 08:04:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well he probably liked you but when you turned him down he probably lost some intrests in you! Then when he went for vacation he reliezed he didnt need you and stopped e-mailing you aslo he probably felt bad or ashamed for it! Dont worry... If he was a nice guy he wouldnt be sooo shallow not to talk to you because you turned him down! Find a new friend to talk to. Dont chase after him either he'll eventually miss you and come running bac so give it some time!
2007-07-20 08:10:02 · answer #1 · answered by SaRaH_bEaRa_a_BlUe_EyEd_BaBe_DUH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just went through this! But I was dumb enough to go out with him for like a day. Things got tricky between us.
It didn't feel right calling my best friend, my boy friend...so I broke it off with him...now I stopped talking to him because he had nothing but horrible things to say to me.
He was willing to cheat on his girlfriends with me and I wasn't for it...and he got pissed.
He's probably just bitter about the rejection. All guys are alike in that department. They can't stand to be told "no". They want to be the person that can make you do anything, and be a "man".
I wouldn't make the first move in this case...wait for him. And once he does message you, ask him what his problem was and is.
Good luck.
2007-07-20 15:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the problem girl, get a life.why would you want to talk to someone who dose not want to talk to you.
So he ask you for a picture that dose not mean a thing.You do not know for what purpose he wanted that picture. I once ask my daughter for a picture of this girl, A friend and I sent it to someone I have never seen ,just to make this other person think I was the person in the picture and I had a crush on him. For all you know he may take it home, hang it on a wall and throw darts at it.
2007-07-20 15:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by me-maw 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes tryin to see if you like him back cause thats what he wants, hes probably not happy with his current g.f or maybe he just wants u to be moe open and show him some affection. Hes only gonna try so many times before he moves on.
2007-07-20 15:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys are like that...it's like 'all or nothing' and that he wanted you for a booty call, and when you just wanted to be 'normal' friends, he decided to 'call the whole thing off'.
Which, by the way, is very good for you! You don't want or need a guy like that! Respect yourself and find a guy that likes you for you!
2007-07-20 15:11:56 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was probably thinking that he was going to be able to cheat with you on his girlfriend, and when he realized that you didn't want any part of that, he decided there was no need in talking to you anymore.
Forget him. He's not worth the headache/friendship.
2007-07-20 15:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to start with... he's male and that's problem enough. I would suggest male PMS. A possible solution to the problem would be cutting your loses and making new friends because obviously you to weren't on the Same page anyways.
2007-07-20 15:11:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's porbably just one of those jerks that usually gets girls and if that's the story scince he got rejected he's just mad. He can get over it! I have a friend that's just like that after I came back he stoped talking to me too. But oh, Well that's just who they are.
If they can't stand getting rejected then they
can just get over it, it happends. They just need to learn that! We gotta be strong!!!
2007-07-20 15:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple! Problem is he's fallen in LOVE with you, and friendship is to painful for him to endure. This happens all the time, people fall in LOVE with their friends. The first sign was him throwing his girlfriend in your face to make you jealous. Problem is, it didn't work. His LOVE for you has grown so much, that he can't stand just being friends with you anymore!
2007-07-20 15:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Christanti 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well my guess is that he used u tried to get close to u and tried to have u if u know what i mean but it diddent work and he got tired of trying and moved on!
2007-07-20 15:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by Birdy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋