2007-07-20 08:04:18 · 39 answers · asked by CHACHI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes. I didn't have a boyfriend until i was about 17 years-old, my parents were very strict on things like that. And nothing serious ever comes out of relationships at such a young age, nothing meaningless that is.Btw..boys are only problems you add to your life =)' j/p
2007-07-20 08:08:32 · answer #1 · answered by angel_of_darkness2480 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly fine! I'm 19 and have never been in a relationship. I didn't go on my first date until my senior year in high school. To be honest, I too wondered why I never had a boyfriend when I was 14. Now that I look back, I wish I hadn't wasted so much time wondering if something was wrong with me. I was perfectly normal.
You are probably going to start high school soon. Focus on doing well academically and find activities that you will enjoy. Sooner or later, plenty of boys will come around
2007-07-20 08:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely ok to be 14 and not have a boyfriend! mot everyone dates a guy every second of their lives. I am 14 and still single. There are guys that would like to date me but I am choosing to not go out and have some time off. Your friends may have boyfriends, but if you dont it isnt the end of the world. When the right guy comes along you will realize that it was worth the wait. :)
2007-07-20 08:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by qtpie0149 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great. Why would you want the headaches of a relationship at that age when you could be doing so many productive things ? My son is 14 and good looking too but I dread the day he gets a girlfriend because then his riding, wrestling and grades are all going to suffer. Who need it ? If I could go back I would do more and skip the girlfriends (games and headaches) until I was ready to find a wife.
2007-07-20 08:17:44 · answer #4 · answered by Jimbob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay. Being young means you got a lot on your plate already. You have to worry about school and growing up and becoming an adult. I had a few "boyfriends" in high school, but nothing too serious. Just a boy that I held hands with at the movie theatre. But my first serious relationship didn't occur til college. And trust me, I wish I would have waited til after that. I got so caught up on this one person that my grades suffered and I ended up failing a lot of my classes and losing my scholorship. Just focus on being you and doing what you have to do and in time, that right person will come along. But it's okay to have fun in the meantime. Just behave yourself. And good luck with everything in the future.
2007-07-20 08:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Xindy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definately!!! I got my first boyfriend at 15 and I still wish I had waited. The truth is, guys at that age, and up through most of high school just aren't ready for a relationship; they're immature and won't last long as a boyfriend. My advice, and I hope you take it to heart, is to wait until you find an amazing guy that won't force you to lower your standard or morals. Trust me, you'll find him. Besides, being single is way more fun than being taken... you're free to flirt and have fun!! I hope this helped.
2007-07-20 08:09:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is okay to not have a boyfriend yet. you should not have to worry about telling people why either. maybe you are just not ready for that. maybe you enjoy hanging out with your friends instead. at 14 you should worry about having fun with your friends and getting to know and understand how people are. you have plenty of time to date. i waited till i was 18. i kinda wish i would have done some things different. one was get a house and car before i setteled down. i would have done more with my friends and maybe still have friends today. who knows. all i know is you will know when you are ready. don't feel as if you need to because every one else is. you should kinda feel sorry for them. they are the ones who have to worry about pleasing some one else other than you. it is time for you to live for you. enjoy it while you can. you can also find friends who have no boyfriends either so it can be a little easier for you. who knows right. just have fun as a teenager. if you don't later you will regret it trust me. i had to grow up to fast without a mom around. i was on my own at 17. good luck. and hey be proud you are waiting. keep your in mind if you have to answer with a funny quirky comment if asked why you don't have a boy friend. for example. " why should i, he is extra baggage right now. " i need to worry about me right now. i don't have time for that. there are things you will figure out to say.
2007-07-20 08:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by trish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend to be OK. you are not a half of a person if you don't have one. this is a great time to figure out what you like and what you don't so when you do have a boyfriend you can have a strong relationship based on who you are not what you do for him. and plus who wants to be tied down so early in life. Boys are great Just take your time and enjoy who you are with out the confusion of what he wants you to be
Good Luck
2007-07-20 08:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by jlkorky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I looked it up in the 14 yr old "OKAY" handbook, and Yes, it is okay. Actually it said to refer to the 16 yr old handbook to find references as to being old enough to have a boyfriend
2007-07-20 08:08:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, perfectly fine. I'm 14 and I don't have a girlfriend and won't have one until 16.(mormon)
but yes, don't worry of having one when everyone else has one.
the later the better because you don't want to start something when you're still in your teen years.
2007-07-20 08:09:15 · answer #10 · answered by NatNat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋