if you got a girl pregnant would you really stay with her.
2007-07-20 07:18:49 · 23 answers · asked by shaie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES YES YES YES,,,,, it will be my duty,, i dont think leaving a women in her state like that is a good thing, i would not forgive myself if i did,,, if she got pregnant because we had a one night stand, even then i would not leave her ,,,even if she says``you dont have to do this because you knocked me up not loving me`` then yes still i would be there for her,,if she still wanna raise the kid knowing that we wont be together yes i would be there,,,,,,,,,,,, its my responsibilty,,,,,, even if she dont want me anymore,i will be there until she has given birth, buy the neccessary thing,support her in the money, and all of those stuff,,,,its in my and maybe allmost all the men that they need to protect their young ! BUT BUT DONT USE THIS EXCUSE TO KEEP A MAN YOU LIKE OK ? the world is crazy nowdays,just have to tell you that
2007-07-20 07:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depend. No matter what I would take care of financial responsibility and being a part of the child's life. If you love, or even really like, the mother then I'd say you should give it a try as a family. Sometimes a couple staying together that aren't a good couple can be more damaging to a kid then living with only one parent. No matter what thee is no excuse to not take an active role in raising the kid.
2007-07-20 14:24:39 · answer #2 · answered by Phishr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse! Any man who takes a chance and has intercourse is risking having the girl get pregnant. Before you start, realize that if this girl gets pregnant your going to have to take responsibility. I am not saying girls can't take care of the baby themselves, many girls do and do a great job but if your a baby's daddy you better make an effort. Later in life the daddy who was never their for the baby will regret every second of his life that he missed with the child.
2007-07-20 14:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Faded Funk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed with my first wife and lost 19 years of my life. How ever my sons and I have a great relationship and the divorce has done little damage as far as I can see. I think it is because they cant doubt my love for them. If you are going to devote your life to something, it might as well be your children. Once they are 18 end it civilly.
2007-07-20 14:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would but it depends on how much you love her and if you want the kid to know you. but even if you do leave her she will still get child support from you and well fare from the government every month. but i think that when you two actually have the baby you love it allot because that's when they really have to count on you and you ll feel the joy of father hood.
2007-07-20 14:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger Fangs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would depend on the circumstance and the girl. I would stay with her if I had sex with her with the intentions of being with her afterwards but if it were a one night stand, we would have to talk
2007-07-20 14:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by Frank L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im one of the guys that actully would becuz i couldnt just let a single teen mom take care of a baby i would feel way to much regret
2007-07-20 14:21:33 · answer #7 · answered by iversonfan3rox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if your dating her, if you are I would but if it was a one night stand and you guys don't like each then no but I would still take care of the kid
2007-07-20 14:21:58 · answer #8 · answered by vipermen21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would if your willing to risk having sex without protection than you should man up to whatever happens....and hopefully you knew all the risks before doing IT
2007-07-20 14:31:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really doesn't make a difference as long as you take care of the baby...but if you want to be with her then be with her...if you don't just take care of your responsibility
2007-07-20 14:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by capricorn-saturn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋