okay, I'm asking this question to set straight once and for all my understanding of cheaters and what you all think about it. SO.. my question is this.. if someone had relationships in the past.. lets say for my situation, a girl that went to military school, had boyfriends there (sort of empty delinquents) who she cheated on.. I want to believe this is a phase, but do you all believe that if this girl cheated on these guys that didnt really mean all that much to them, would she still cheat if she was with a great guy who treated her with respect and LIVES just to make her smile on a day to day basis? what do you all think?
2007-07-20 06:10:38 · 12 answers · asked by Jack B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sounds like trouble. Don't be a doormat. Be a man. Dump her.
2007-07-20 06:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Vinnie Sciurini 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It has been my experience that once someone proves that they are a cheater then that is what they are. Perhaps it is the thrill of feeling like she is falling in love and not actually the relationship she craves. Maybe she gets bored of the same thing no matter how good it is and decides to experiment... whatever her reasoning is, she has proven to be untrustworthy by betraying her relationships in the past and without trust you CAN NOT have any real relationship that will last. If you are the kind of man that would treat her with respect and LIVES just to make her smile, you should look for someone who would respect you and do the same... People do not change unless they want to. No matter how much you love and respect her or how well you treat her, she is the same person she was then, unless she has had a major revelation. YOU are worth more than that. Do not set yourself up for a fall.
2007-07-20 13:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by sue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is a possible new start for a person. If a person has cheated several times then it's an indication of their nature and they'll probably keep doing it. If a person has cheated on the partner they are still with, chances are good they'll cheat on them again.... opportunity is an important concept here though. Some people will avoid situations where they might have opportunity so that they don't have to face that struggle. I don't agree that once a cheater always a cheater BUT I'd agree with once a cheater probably going to cheat again.
2007-07-20 13:23:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the person some people will stop others wont just cuz it is a habit in a sense if they had cheated for so long. one of my friends cheated a lot my freshmen year but now she has stopped cuz she has really fell in love for some reason with this guy (who i think is a jerk) but sometimes if girls find what they want...there is no need to look for it else where.
2007-07-20 13:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
na,she would stop for a while then she would do it again,she is a cheater,once an cheater,always a cheater.some females cant except the fact that they have good men,they are blinded by whats in the pants of another man.
2007-07-23 03:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by nickkie s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If one was once a cheater one is still a cheater.Its reality honey!
2007-07-20 18:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do change and grow up. But if she is under 25, she might cheat on you.
2007-07-20 13:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's always going to cheat on everybody she gets with
2007-07-20 13:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really depends upon the person
but for me if i were the girl who will find a great guy like that i wont.
2007-07-20 13:19:38 · answer #9 · answered by 00_tyradjh_00 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater
2007-07-20 13:13:27 · answer #10 · answered by stephie5555 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋