okay i know this might be a little odd to post, but i have honestly not got a proper guy's perspective before.
i'm a general UK size 12 and i get called fat/told i need to lose weight. in the US i think i would be around an 8 if it's right that it's two sizes down in the US.
but what do you think? and what is your ideal body shape for a woman?
i personally want a guy to have a bit of weight, i'm sick of the obsession with being thin, are you?
ps. be honest, i'm starting a diet anyway, my sister made me! lol
no rude comments!
2007-07-20 05:58:30 · 11 answers · asked by Poet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I personally like a woman with some curves, and find bone skinny women to be unattractive. It is TV's fault, because women look about 10-20 pounds heavier on TV, and those skinny models look much worse in person than on the tube.
2007-07-20 06:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The conversion is to a size 10 in U.S. That is not huge. Very thin people who are not too tall wear 2 or 4. But 6 and 8 would not be fat. So that is a point of reference.
You need to watch your weight for health reasons, and your personal life will take care of itself as you meet people who are not shallow. My wife is a size 12-14 U.S. and a wonderful lover. I would care less about the few extra pounds.
2007-07-20 13:05:43 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. No matter what your size or shape, you will find those who find you attractive and/or unattractive.
If you "feel" sexy, then you are but in contrast, if you feel fat/old...you will act that way.
My girl is just fairly pretty and a bit on the heavy side but guess what? I wouldn't exchange her for anyone in the world.
2007-07-20 13:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by we_are_legion99 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no ideal shape. No one is perfect. someone however, can be perfect for you. You ought to lose weight for health reasons. You can't commit to someone for life and jeopardize it by being unhealthy. Love who loves you for you. Guys with thin girls sometimes long for thick, thick long for slim. Most humans are never satisfied with what they have. Individuals are always more critical of themselves than other people
2007-07-20 13:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by R W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proportions is all that matters. The male is instinctivley attracted to women with the "Hour Glass" Figure. You can be 110 lbs or 200 lbs and still look good.
2007-07-20 13:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by Dolphanaddict 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank goodness I live in US! Size 8 is not bad at all. You would get a lot of compliments here.
2007-07-20 13:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Les 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women with curves are hott ( i hope thats not a rude comment, im just saying)
your not fat and your not skinny
your average but from what i can tell you have nice curves and that is something a guy looks for
2007-07-20 13:03:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on how you carry your weight. if you're carrying it all in your stomach, then it doesn't look as good. but if it's evenly distributed throughout your whole body then it's not as bad. Personally, i prefer a girl with a little weight on her. I find girls who are too thin to not be sexy.
2007-07-20 13:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by matcoach2382 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
weel that size seems fine to me no where close to being fat at all. it takes alot of weight for me to say aa gorl is fat but there is a point.
2007-07-20 13:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by big rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a size 8 is not small but i really isn't big either. you shouldn't worry about what others say. just be yourself
2007-07-20 13:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋