2007-07-20 05:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
I stongly believe in that saying.
2007-07-20 05:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age. If you are 15 and a guy goes off with someone else it is possible that he was to young and inexperianced to really know what he wanted. If he did it once , and you had what you thought was an exclusive relationship then maybe you were not both on the same page. If you are talking about a guy who is 17 or older, then the idea of cheating isn't excusable any more. Unless you are with an idiot, they know exactly what they are doing. Cheating is not only emotionally dangerous but physically dangerous with all the disease out there. If a guy really loves you, then you are the only one he has an intrest in. If you are willing to accept a cheater, be prepared for a lot of anger and suffering, because then,you too,have agreed that you are not worthy of better.
2007-07-20 12:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on your once he will likely cheat on you again. I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater because if you are with the person you love you won't cheat on them even if you cheated on others in the past. It is easier to cheat on someone again after you do it the first time.
2007-07-20 12:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl by the time you catch him cheating once it may have already been done a dozen or so times. Just because one time was either confessed or caught doesn't mean will will tell you about the other 100 times like I did, and I am not with her anymore but will still carry it to the grave. I wasn't even caught once we just broke up cause I was too busy serving up steak for the rest of them.
2007-07-20 12:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After they cross that line the first time, that's the crucial time. They get caught, and they will either be so sorrowful and remorseful that they will 'snap out of it' so-to-speak and never do it again (unlikely), or they will suffer your anger and hurt and all the emotions that go with it, and just end up doing it again once they see that nothing really happens as a result.
So they will get to feeling good again, and start up with the same stuff all over again. Then it's just a cycle for them. They do it.....get their jollies, get caught, lay low for a while, then do it again.
Rinse -- lather -- repeat.
Once they cheat the first time....get RID of them......period!
2007-07-20 12:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he should even be allowed to cheat once. Once that trust is broken it's REALLY hard to get it back. My last boyfriend didn't cheat, but he did lie to me about alot of things, and even now when we talk I don't feel like I can trust him. If he says he's really sorry and wont do it again, and you feel like he's serious, then you can stay with him if you want, but if he cheats again.. get out.
2007-07-20 12:13:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know but i am in that situation right now where my guy said he didnt sllep with her but i dont believe him..i think he did..and so for the life of me i cant move forward as hard as i try to put my best foot forward i replay this situation..it is killing me softly...i CAN never and i WILL NEVER trust him again..everytime he tells me something i have to replay it in my mind and try to figure out if he is telling the truth or lying...for example he tells me that this weekend he is working now i beleive him or DO I..i have try..i do love my BF but girl what he did to me i will never forget..he has hurt me so bad and for this week i was in tears because i kept thinking about what he did and if he will do it again..this happened about 7 months ago but it still hurts so anyway..i told him what was bothering me and he said that i have nothing to worry about..and that he loves me and i am in good hands..but hey questiion i have is why why would he even think of texting that girl and telling her that he wants to fu ck her knowing that he was with me at the time..why...but if i try to bring this up now i will not get an answer he wil tell me we already spoke about it and i dont want to talk about it again..and he will get pissed so i am screwed or i can leave..but i have been with him two years now..and every day is a STRUGGLE for me....so its up to you to decide if you want to leave or stay
2007-07-20 12:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by jessica s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are precious. The answer is an unlimited amount of times-until his heart changes with help from above. It will take time for you to realize the whole of your situation. When one person gives in to another all their heart leaving no room for themselves or our creator, they blind themselves to reality. we can get ourselves into a fix-like drugs a person knows its killing them but their feelings overwelm their mind and they go back for another fix, the only way is help and refocus. Romans 1 teaches not to be ashamed in life and of the gospel, to be thankful and worsih the creator instead of the created.
feeling good about yourself helps you feel good about life and the future.
Truth is, many are willing to give up their future for the fun of the present no matter the cost. "There is pleasure in sin for a season, but then cometh the judgement." When we believe a lie so we can throw away the truth we get problems
Hebrews 13 in that chapter once you let Jesus into your heart to save you from sin and be your friend "I will never leave thee nor forsake thee."
You got to decide if your worth a true love first from above,
peace in Jesus care and prayer John 3 asked forgiveness of sins and Jesus to come into my heart to be my best friend, amen as promised in Revelation 3:19&20 as He says "I love you and knock on your heart door to come in and deliver, and be your friend when you ask me to.
best wishes and prayin for you, David
2007-07-20 12:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Dee. If he cheated once you can pretty safely bet he will do it again, if he hasn't already.
2007-07-20 12:12:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kona Cutie 33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please girl... wake up and smell the coffee.
You deserve better
1 time.... 1 million times... all the same thing!!!!!!!!!!
2007-07-20 12:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋