I got chatting regularly to a 19 year old girl then was eventually meeting her, phoning her etc. We ended up together then my bro came along and secretly met her and took her to see movies behind my back. she has now got 2 boyfriends and my 27 year old bro is one of them. She sees her other boyfriend each weekend. My bro also steals my things, lies, and makes my life hell.
2007-07-20 04:48:36 · 34 answers · asked by gbasource 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To the victor goes the spoils.
I wouldn't call him evil, I'd call him an opportunist. Then again, I would call the girl a smutty little whore!
Here is a little ditty I put together a few days ago to outline my part of my philosophy!
Without rivalry there can be no victory.
Without conflict and struggle there is only stagnation and death!
Failure is the price of weakness, weakness breads death;
Be strong and victorious or fail and die!
Strength is the foundation of power!
Power is the foothold to victory!
Passion is the flame of life, control it and control life.
Let passion control you and your life will be consumed.
Through control we master our passions.
Through our passions we master the world.
If you want your brother to stop taking advantage of you, you need to put him in his place. If you don’t have the skill or strength to do it, then you have two choices.
1) Increase your skill, knowledge and strength to become his superior and put him in his place.
2) Accept that he is your superior and accept what happens.
Personally, I would explain to him that what is your is yours and is not to be touched. If he violates your personal property, I would make certain to teach him a lesson he would not soon forget. It would be painful and memorable. The choice is yours.
While you are at it, I would teach the little girl a lesson too. Nothing physical, but I could think up a few really nasty lessons that will stick in her mind. Than again, I'm not a very nice person when I am betrayed.
I hope this helps.
2007-07-20 09:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I erased what I already wrote because I reread your question. Are you old enough to be out on your own or go live with someone.........HELLO, anyone in there? What the hell are you waiting for get out of there and get away from "ALL" these people. What good are they doing you, any? Doesn't sound like it to me.
Unless this is what you want in a relationship with a female then stay with her, if not then it shouldn't take you but two seconds to come up with that answer.
If you just could look at all this realistically and truthfully and not fool yourself, you'll see that all this crap and all these people in your life are making you obviously miserable.
Look when it comes down to it the only one that can and knows how to really take care of you the way you want to be taken care of is you, your allowing people to abuse you and to make you miserable and unhappy. You have to ask yourself why your putting up with it.
Your the only person that can do something about it or not.
2007-07-20 04:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by MLJ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your brother is not very nice especially to you his flesh and blood. But then again neither is this girl, who is to say she would not two time you if you went out with her? Leave her be, find some one worthy of your self hon. And keep your personnel life away from your brother. You can only hope he grows up one day and treats you better. When you do meet the right girl for you she wont look twice at your bro. xx
2007-07-20 05:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, There is an old saying You can choose your friends, but not your family. All fool to your brother seeing a girl that has another boyfriend, there is no future in that think yourself lucky that it's not you. She is not worth it. As for your brother some brother he is stealing from you and lying to you. At least you are aware of this so you are one step ahead of him. You are a better person than him always stay that way.
2007-07-20 06:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by kevina p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a slapper and he's immature and inadequate.
Wind him up by telling him you've been base jumping and hold the club record, or you've joined a club where they cook meals out of insects etc, see if he wants to follow you then!
And forget the slapper. Get a REAL woman, warn her about your brother trouble so she knows to expect him to hit on her.
At the minute he's dating your cast-off who is not happy with him and having to get satisfied by another guy, so feel sorry for him!
PS did you realise, you're allowed to live your life away from your bro, and its not compulsory to tell him about it? Try moving away.
2007-07-20 05:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Wonderwoman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if your bro made a run at your girlfriend, she was still skanky enough to get with both of you. Get over the girl, find a new one. He's your blood and that's forever, so try to let your bro know how you feel but do your best to salvage your relationship with your sibling. Bros before hoes, dude...
2007-07-20 04:53:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the thing is...your bro is out of order for doing what he did....BUT the girl is even worse for accepting a date with him i the first place, she must have known that he was your bro....i would not fall out with your bro but i would never tell him who your dating or who you like because he cannot be trusted....HOWEVER i would not see this girl again, she has played both of you against each other AND has another guy on the side...she sounds like trouble to me...don't fight over her, she knew what she was doing...find someone decent....
2007-07-20 05:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. I am afraid this sounds like the kind of thing brothers, sisters, close friends do and it is all part of growing up. Sadly, people who lie and cheat do seem quite often to get away with it and are the first to accuse others of being the same. Bet you wish you never introduced them!!
2007-07-20 05:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by MI5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know where they go, follow them and then pretend to spot her with him and ask what hes doing but do it when there kissing or hugging or have their arms around each other, then ask her to choose someone, if she doesn't choose you she's a whore, excuse my language. but yes if my bro done something like that, the only place hed ever see again would be the roof of his coffin. or pretend to get an std off of her and tell you bro, he might leave her alone.
2007-07-20 04:55:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
now when you say bro are talking about a friend or your brother? if he is a friend he need to be kick to the curb. if its your bother you need to really talk to him about how disrespectful he is being. as for the girl if she is doing this with full knowledge you need to leave her behind and move on with someone else who will have more respect for you.
2007-07-20 05:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by KAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋