I dont want to risk qettin hurt, so i usually break up with my boyfriend early in our relationship, you could hardly call it a relationship......what should i do??
2007-07-20 04:17:50 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start out as a relationship, if it turns into a relation, let it go where it wants to go. Don't start out with a boyfriend, that'll only scare you away.
2007-07-20 04:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Laina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are breaking up because you do not like some thing about the relationship, then you are correct and you must do so.
But if you are breaking up a good relationship for no good reason, then you must not.
No pain no gain. One must take risk to achieve any thing.
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By
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2007-07-20 11:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably explore what has happened in your life to get you to this point, and then deal with it. Eventually you will either be alone or take a risk. Most relationships don't work forever hence dating lots of people before we settle down. You should look at it as a learning experience and understand that heartache is part of the process.
2007-07-20 11:25:18 · answer #3 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you always waited till the "perfect guy" came along you may wait forever. What is a "perfect guy". Unfortunately there is no body who is perfect. Getting your feelings hurt is like trial and error. Your bound to get hurt when it comes down to loving someone. Your heart has the ability to mend , you may never forget how it got hurt. But the good thing is when you find that "perfert person" all your broken hurts, pains and the crying you may have done Dont even matter no more.
So give it a chance.
2007-07-20 11:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have to open yourself up to another guy. I know how hard that may seem, because you fear that you will end up hurting. You have to tell yourself that if you don't take some kind or risk in a relationship, you will end up spending the rest of your life alone.
2007-07-20 11:23:45 · answer #5 · answered by yellow44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah yes..
i do this also..
all i can say is.. find a guy.. a nice guy.. not nessisarily the right guy.. just any nice guy u are attracted to physically and emotionally and then set urself a goal. say.. you arnt allowing urself to break up with him till you hav been together for 6 months. if he breaks up with u b4 then you just find a new guy.. increase the time lenght each time.. u never know.. the first guy might end up being the right guy and by the time 6 months is up u wont want to dump him.. also hav exceptions.. if he is abusing u.. then you are aloud to dump him.
im gunna give this a shot.
Good luck =]
2007-07-20 11:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being affraid of getting hurt. It is such a waste of time. As human beings we all experience a certain amount of fears when it comes to say getting hurt but don't add more to what is naturally there already, your building your own wall. Live, Love, and learn.
2007-07-20 11:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Candi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that fear of getting hurt will keep you from ever finding a real relationship with any guy... before your next relationship, become secure in who you are as a person... then don't worry about getting hurt.... because you know who you know and are confident in who you are, and will be able to over come being hurt....
2007-07-20 11:22:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start takin risks .. surely its beta to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all ... and yes you probably will get hurt by these guys at some point but liefes full of good and bad
2007-07-20 11:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not willing to take the risk, then you are destined to be alone for the rest of your life.
2007-07-20 11:21:26 · answer #10 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋