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i moved in with my girlfriend in october all of a sudden she says she loves me as a friend and wants to find her place in the world id walk the earth just for one more chance please help what can i do to get ger back for any one who's ever loved please help

2007-07-20 04:10:17 · 13 answers · asked by broken hearts club 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i have a similar situation w/ my ex. i think you should not rush her. She's obviously feeling like she needs something else. true love always finds its way back home. "if you love something, let it go if it comes back, its meant to be if not, it was never yours in the first place" stay strong and find your place in life, if you all are on two different pages. it will never work!

2007-07-20 05:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by the advisor 2 · 0 0

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2016-02-12 11:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

She says she loves you as a friend- is that what you want - a friend? Let her go and find her place in the world because if you could persuade to her to come back she would end up resenting you because she wants different at the moment. You got three choices really mate- let her go and find her place in the world whilst you hang around to see if she comes back to you when she's finished her journey of self discovery, or talking her into coming back where you will both end up hating each other- or moving on and finding someone new- i know it hurts- by god i know it hurts- but we have to do it.

2007-07-20 04:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ellie 6 · 0 0

That is a bit of a cruel thing to do to you. She obviously doesn't love you the way you want her to. At least she has been honest with you and is not keeping you on a piece of string, but you must let her do what she wants to do - whatever that is. You could just keep in touch if that wouldn't be too painful, and tell her you would like to get back with her some time in the future. But you would have to be very strong to do that. Wouldn't it be best just to let her go and try to get your life back, as you will in time I assure you.

2007-07-20 04:20:27 · answer #4 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0 0

Sorry, love, I think you'd better move out and get on with your life. Sounds like she's feeling a little claustrophobic. Let the girl have some time and space to miss you.

In the meantime, don't miss her too much, stay busy and see friends and have a nice time. Don't obsess!

2007-07-20 04:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0 0

ok Bobby, so which you probably did make a mistake by not kissing her in this type of long term!! and in case you have been meant to be female chum and boyfriend, of direction you had to kiss her, going out not kissing equals basically friends. probably she did such as you and nevertheless does possibly fairly if she reported guaranteed to you once you asked her to promenade. What you will desire to do now could be to have the initiative, make the 1st pass and save doing issues to tutor her you like her, do issues of a guy, of a gentleman, ask her out, provide her issues she likes (i don't know if she's like maximum women individuals: chocolates, plant lifestyles...), write her notes, the CD element with the song you wrote replace into great!!! do greater issues of the type and KISS HER! Wait until eventually the staggering 2d, do not hurry it yet do not postpone it like the final time, hug her, carry her face between your palms and KISS HER!

2016-10-22 04:03:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

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2007-07-20 04:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by Wamibo 5 · 0 0

I understand that you love her, but if she says she wants to "find herself" then you have no real choice right now but to let her do that.

If you continue to push her towards wanting to get back together with you, she may never want to talk to you again and then you'll never have that chance.

I suggest that you tell her that you hope she finds what she's hoping to find out about herself, but if she ever feels like she needs someone to talk to, that you'll be there for her.

2007-07-20 04:16:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Don't break your heart !!! If she has made up her mind (and it is her choice), There is no way you can change it, and don't try.

There could be a thousand reasons for her
change. I would accept what she says and be happy for the time you had together.

You can't live History. Live for today and tomorrow. Yesterday is Gone !!

2007-07-20 07:23:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I think what you should do first is to analyze why she left, if you found the answer why, then you should compromise, change that thing for her to come back. But I guess, it is a tough thing to do, I think you better move on....

2007-07-20 04:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by guRl 6 · 0 1

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