I'm so sad and depressed I don't know what to do I really need some one to talk to
2007-07-20 04:08:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I've been on both sides of the fence before. And if you don't talk to me, then talk to someone and reach out to a psychiatrist and please seek help. Once you start thinking about killing yourself and taking your own life, you're on the edge waiting to fall off. Why seek help when, maybe in your mind it's a matter of weakness? Because once you want to kill yourself, you're fighting for your own life. So if you don't talk to me, then talk to someone. I assure you that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
2007-07-20 04:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by Raptor 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Been there...done that...attempted at least. To the morons that say for you to do it...and that people are so much worse off than you...how the f' do you know...moron. Just because you love to get up and you feel a certain way about life doesn't mean that everyone else does. Life is worth living??? Really...what is so ******* great about it...don't get me wrong. I am not promoting killing yourself...but to tell another human being that life is worth living is so arrogant. YOu HAVE no idea what a person has going on in their internal brain synapsis. I was a friend with a man who survive F'ing Auswitz...but when he was hit with a bout of depression...he said it was much WORSE-Life is life..it is a ham and egger existence of filling time...some people find excitement and thrill is small things...some people have orgasms over a mets game...some people; however- no matter what is going on...best house...cool rug rats- good food- good eats...suffer from something that is named depression but I am not quite certain that embodies what it really is...because depression indicated you are "upset" about a certain situation. This is why you have all the idiots saying "there are people that have it worse then you...kill yourself already" They think that depression is a feeling sorry for yourself or some such BULL. So to clarify...you don't feel sorry for yourself... It is not like you are resting your laurels and feasting on peeled grapes. Most people who are depressed are like possesed (and I don't mean this in a religious sense). It is like their mind is dulled and there is no feeling to and about anything except dull and repetitive thoughts to slash your throat and end things in the most violent of ways. People that kill themselves are cowards...i beg to f'in differ...Jumping off a 175 foot bridge is not the thing of cowards... hardly. It has nothing to do with that. Most of the time depressed people feel like they are a burden because the nature of their brain disorder feeds messages to them that Nothing matters, you don't matter, you take up space, oxygen, etc. Gee...I wish I lived a live of ignorance that just cause I am pretty and have a good job and a car...I should be happy. I am happy...most of the time...except when this creeping demon invades my psyche. When It is not there...I do more -probably- in a week -than all these self-rightous *** clowns that tell the suicidal to Pull the trigger, already. Let's see, I do marathons, I run a political party in our district, I have a master's degree, I have raised two children who are in college... I don't do drugs...never have...I don't drink (but don't faulth those who do). I am a funny m'fer and make a lot of people laugh. I have a mensa IQ...and am pretty freaking smart...I have gifts...etc. When the depression (whatever word) invades...something turns... I close down... that is why it is a MENTAL illness morons...You can't see inside the brain.... but whoever thinks that it is not real is nuts...the brain and its various regions control everything. Anyway...I have ranted enough
I have been there...and I haven't done the deed. I am now 44...tried it when I was 19 and 30. Both serious...both very serious. Woke up...from 60 dalmain...in the hospital...stomach pumped. The other attempt was that I woke up after 5 days...and was no worse for wear...no one knew...and I said "f it...guess it isn't meant to be". I get depressed at times...sometimes when I am waiting for the subway...out of the blue...the tracks beckon me... It is weird. Other days I love to be alive...most days it is a toss up.
I think that there are medications that can clear up the cobwebs and make your life look less distressful...the situation may be the exact same...it just clears up the cobwebs about it. Suicide normally is not a thought because of bad situations... it is normally a really bad feeling in the pit of your being...having nothing to do with the exteriour. And if you have been there...someone can hand you a million dollars...and you still want to jump.
2007-07-20 07:18:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
Just in case no one answers you, I love you and really feel for the way you feel:) I am bipolar and often feel that depressed, but it does eventually pass away. If you can't find a friend to chat to then call the Samaritans, they will listen.
Whatever is making you feel so bad, if you can't beat it, then try to get away from it. There are lots of us out here who care about you, know how you feel. Don't listen to any nasty little **** who says otherwise.
If you're on anti-depressants, like me, maybe you need to see your doctor about taking an extra one when you feel so down. If a problem is getting you down, try and find some advice through councelling or citizen's advice.
2007-07-20 04:22:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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I lost my husband to suicide and I now am on a solos survivor support group on line, it helps so much.
There is nothing more tragic than that to your family. Consider the lives of others and not just yours.
You are here for a reason.
Seek some counseling and preserve a good life for your future.
Check out some of the sites I put at the top and there are many more if you enter suicide support groups on your search engine or google. There is help for you!!!!!!!!
2007-07-20 04:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by lana s 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't kill yourself i know sometimes you feel really depressed but think about all those people, family, friends, even ex's that love you and if you comit sucicide then think how depressed all those people think i used to be really depressed and i wouldn't tell anybody and i just would burst out crying and i decided i needed help and talking to somebody made me feel so much better.
2007-07-20 08:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please dont kill yourself! Suicide is one of the most selfish things you could do, think about your friends and family! they would think that they failed by not being good enough to save you. listen to my words: DONT DO IT! maybe consider getting yourself a pet, they will always listen. Get a punching bag to take your anger out on. Make some friends, join a club, and talk to your doctor about these suicide thoughts, she may prescribe u some anti-depressents or something. We dont know you, but we care about u and we are showing it by answering you, dont kill yourself. it will be the biggest mistake you've made. go to the site below, it might help. please, dont do it.
2007-07-20 04:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about the people you'll leave behind and what you'll put them through...they will also face depression, loneliness and probably guilt for not know and not helping you.
There are no problems so bad that you should take your own life. Look for some positives in your life to counter the negatives.
Good luck! Read the first chapter of James in the Bible...
2007-07-20 04:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Toolman 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't do anything rash. Life is too short as it is. See your Dr. Maybe he can give you something to help. Modern medicines can be quite effective and have come a long way. Also figure out what is causing your depression. If you can do this, maybe you can help yourself.
2007-07-20 04:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT kill yourself! Someday you will be glad you didnt. Find someone to talk to and get through this bad time. Things will be better someday--you are just going through a bad time. Maybe you need antidepressants--Im on medication myself--it really helps.
2007-07-20 04:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Nemo the geek 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
death is not a way out it just another pathway to another life. the problem is long term and trying however i have got better from mine and so will you. you need to believe that. question why you feel like this. and what, who in your life is having such a negative affect on you. work friend family. a family member who is coming to grief about something. not being able to help someone.
2007-07-26 06:54:15 · answer #10 · answered by shadow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋