What happens with me and muslim man?

Question

I asked similar questions yesterday and got some good answers but still have questions.

I fell in love with a muslim man. I am a chrsitian woman. He is from Saudi. I am intereseted in the Muslim faith.

I have known him for awhile. He has been engaged the whole time I knew him. I loved him but did not tell him. Well the day before he left I told him. He told me he too loved me and I was in his heart. He says I wish you had of told me earlier because I could have changed things. He asked when he came back if I would still love him. I told him yes I cant change it.

So what will happen when he returns? I do know what he says is not really a good thing to say in his faith. I know he should not tell me what he said. I just do not know what he expects of me? I have had many people say he is a snake. I know his heart. He is a very good person. I am not some silly woman who is being played. I know him.
so bottom line what will happen when he comes back?

* I am in the USA
* HE is 24 yrs old.
* I know there are many blessings for him if I convert, however I was interested in the religion before I met him. I would not convert unless my heart told me so.

*** Zaugatmisr I would love to contact you but you do not allow emails...

Answer 1

He will either treat you right, or add you to his other wives as a trophy.

Answer 2

Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim - In the Name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful

Hello again. I saw your earlier questions. Here is the truth from a Muslim woman. I am an American woman who accepted Islam over a decade ago. Truly, Islam is the best way of life and when you find a good Muslim husband, you will be the happiest of women.

This Saudi man you are talking about is most likely a snake, as others have warned you. Islam does not allow the casual mixing of men and women, so the fact that you know him well enough to think you are in love with him means that you and he have had an inappropriate relationship. In Islam, men and women who are unrelated are not allowed to be together in private, to touch, let alone kiss, to talk in a flirtatious manner, etc. The fact that he got so close to you shows that he is weak in this area.

It is quite likely that since he travels between the US and Saudi Arabia, that he just wants the convenience of having a woman in each country. Kind of like the "woman in every port" of the Navy, lol. His intentions are quite likely not honorable. Even if he offered to "marry" you, he could not do so legally in the US unless he concealed from them the fact of his Saudi wife, and this is a deception that is not allowed. If there were any children, it is likely he would desert you both when his time in the US is done.

Why am I so cynical? Because I've seen it a hundred times or more. Protect yourself and run from this man. You should also repent to God for any inappropriate contact (hugging, kissing, etc.) that you have had. I know you are a Christian and not a Muslim, but we both worship the same God and He is pleased by chastity and displeased by immorality.

Now, for as you saying you love him, this is a false emotion. Love is something that is result of a shared life. You cannot enter a marriage with love, only good feelings and the potential for loving someone. What is often described as love is really sexual attraction and infatuation. You have to look beyond these deceptive emotions and see the real man with no blinders on.

I absolutely encourage you to study Islam for its own sake, separate from your interest in this man. The basics of Islam are very simple - belief in One God, belief in Muhammad as the final prophet. We do not believe in Original Sin, so we believe there is no need for a blood sacrifice, and we do not believe that Jesus was crucified, rather, someone was substituted for him. We accept the virgin birth and believe that Allah merely says "BE!" and what He wills comes to pass. Jesus is a beloved prophet and the Messiah and will return to slay the Dajjaal and usher in the universal practice of Islam among humankind.

Separate yourself completely from this man. Study Islam, take your time, find out what your rights and responsibilities are as a Muslim and what a man's are. Concentrate on yourself, not this man, and work to find your road in life that is based on truth, modesty, and chastity. If you are living a Godly life, Allah will bless you and help you and God willing He will send you a worthy husband.

Please feel free to contact me off the forum with any more questions you have.

I pray that Allah guides you to that which is best in this world and the next. Ameen.

Fi Aman Allah,

Nancy Umm Abdel Hamid

Answer 3

If you truely where a "Christian" you would not give this pagan a second thought. Allah does as he pleases, while Yahuwah delights in keeping his promises. Would you be happy in a marriage where you, as a Christian, where considered unworthy, something less than respectable. A marriage is about partnership and keeping promises. Why would we expect a Muslim to be any better than Allah, doing as he pleases?
Pray that Yahuwah change your heart. So that you can put Yahuwah first in your heart and mind. Let your father who loves you more than any man could, provide a husband for you. A husband who will likewise have Yahuwah first in his life, so that you can truely be second to no other woman to him.
Hear o Israel, Yahuwah your Elohim is one. There is no other, nor does he go by any other name. Not "God" not "Lord" and never by the name "Allah".
May Yahuwah bless you and keep you. May he cause his face to shine upon you. In Yahushua's name. Amen
Yahushua Shalom
Stephen

Answer 4

Hello!

Nancy's entry is very beneficial and correct. I strongly recommend you to take her advice.
Unfortunately i have seen the same things what she has had seen (derailed marriages and etc)

Other: if he is really a strict saudi man then he would not travel to a kaffir land (states)..
Real religious people only travel to a non-muslim, dangerous kaffir land when it is a must or very necessary.. as far as i have read.. so this is only my opinion..

Answer 5

where r u? w country?
how old is he?
do u no that he will enter the heaven if u convert 2 islam....
a lot of q 2 b asked
read thw bible the only wads u can trust is the warda of our lord Jesus Christ who died 4 us
take extreme care b4 its 2 latr
jesus loves u

Answer 6

2Co 6:14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

This says you need to be the same faith for things to work. I am a Christian and am against it. But you have to decide. I have seen problems even between two married of different denominations of the Christian faith. Make your decision wisely.

Answer 7

it really depands on if he was religious or not but i think if he loves u and hes a good muslim he'll marry u and u'll live happily ever after ..... lol

if thats what u and he wants anyway
and women dont hve to be muslim to marry muslim guy but they hve to be willing to convert

Answer 8

touchy story!

Answer 9

Don't do anything. If the bloody man is engaged, think of how the woman who is already in love with (and who first had him) would feel if you took him. It would be very cruel to the woman to take the guy. I don't see how a Christian could possibly THINK of something like that.

P.S. You should never have made your feelings known to him. Now he might be tempted to leave the woman who is already engaged to.
And one more thing. If he told the woman he's engaged to he loved her, then he told you he loved you, who do you think the next one will be?
In short, he obviously can't be too trustworthy if he abandoned the woman he promised he'd marry.

"I am interested in the Muslim faith." If you are saying I'm interested in converting, then I'd say, WHAT THE HECK! You'd let your love for some guy who's already engaged get in the way with your relationship with Jesus?! If so, you don't deserve Christ's love...
Also, the "holy" books encourage war, terrorism, torture, and hate (towards those of different religions and women). I am not being hateful; in fact, I have verses that prove I am telling the truth, not slandering.


WAR!

"Fight and kill the disbelievers wherever you find them, take them captive, harass them, lie in wait and ambush them using every stratagem of war." Qur'an:9:5

"Fight those who do not believe until they all surrender, paying the protective tax in submission." Qur'an:9:29

"So fight them until there is no more Fitnah (disbelief [non-Muslims]) and all submit to the religion of Allah alone" Qur'an:8:39

"Fight them and Allah will punish them by your hands, lay them low, and cover them with shame. He will help you over them." Qur'an:9:14

"Fight the unbelievers around you, and let them find harshness in you." Qur'an:9:123

"The Prophet had their men killed, their children and woman taken captive." Bukhari:V5B59N512

WOMEN!

"Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur'an." Tabari IX:113

(NOTE! The only reason you are told to treat them well is that they are PROPERTY! Not humans! Domestic ANIMALS!)

"Allah said, ‘It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I created her intelligent.' Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid." Tabari I:280

(EVERY woman in the world is stupid?! Can you honestly tell that's not hateful?!)

"Tell the men with you who have wives: never trust a woman." Ishaq:584

"And for those who launch a charge against their wives, accusing them, but have no witnesses or evidence, except themselves; let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies, (swearing four times) by Allah that he is the one speaking the truth." Qur'an 24:6

(And they're fair too!)


Torture!

"The punishment for those who wage war against Allah and His Prophet and make mischief in the land, is to murder them, crucify them, or cut off a hand and foot on opposite sides...their doom is dreadful. They will not escape the fire, suffering constantly." Qur'an 5:33

"The Prophet gave orders concerning Kinanah to Zubayr, saying, ‘Torture him until you root out and extract what he has. So Zubayr kindled a fire on Kinanah's chest, twirling it with his firestick until Kinanah was near death. Then the Messenger gave him to Maslamah, who beheaded him." Tabari VIII:122, Ishaq:515

"When the sacred forbidden months for fighting are past, fight and kill the disbelievers wherever you find them, take them captive, torture them, and lie in wait and ambush them using every stratagem of war." Qur'an 9:5

"The Muslims met them with their swords. They cut through many arms and skulls. Only confused cries and groans could be heard over our battle roars and snarling." Ishaq:550

"Following Badr, Muhammad sent a number of raiders with orders to capture some of the Meccans and burn them alive." Ishaq:316

"Your Lord inspired the angels with the message: ‘I will terrorize the unbelievers. Therefore smite them on their necks and every joint and incapacitate them. Strike off their heads and cut off each of their fingers and toes." Qur'an 8:12


Terrorism!

"Allah's Apostle said, ‘I have been made victorious with terror.'" Bukhari:V4B52N220

"I shall terrorize the infidels. So wound their bodies and incapacitate them because they oppose Allah and His Apostle." Qur'an:8:12

"If you gain mastery over them in battle, inflict such a defeat as would terrorize them, so that they would learn a lesson and be warned." Qur'an:8:57

"If you come upon them, deal so forcibly as to terrify those who would follow, that they may be warned. Make a severe example of them by terrorizing Allah's enemies." Ishaq:326

"It is not fitting for any prophet to have prisoners until he has made a great slaughter in the land." Qur'an:8:67

"Little do you remember My warning. How many towns have We destroyed as a raid by night? Our punishment took them suddenly while they slept for their afternoon rest. Our terror came to them; Our punishment overtook them." Qur'an:7:3


So there you have it! The koran and other "holy' books endorse terrorism, misogyny, and torture! (Among other equally objectionable things).

Note! Most muslims do not follow this (most likely nor does your friend)! But they are not TRUE Muslims! TRUE Muslims are the terrorists of today!