in 2001, i migrated from one poor african country to rome -italy. then i lived under a catholic priest roof with other immigrants. one night five italian men can into my room and raped me under gun point, one of them was recording the sex abuse wth camera,,,, oh my god, later i left italy to another part of europe. this tme, im a born again, tday 2007 the gay club now goes about showing my nakedness to people that im a gay. making my message of our lord jesus christ baseless. my friends in the church are even avoiding me. how can i come out of this trauma. plsss tell me what to do, should i take my life or what.
2007-07-20 01:48:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
oh my!!! I would like to pray for you first of all. Second you need to pray that God will guide you. And also, those people who are avoiding you must not be your friends. That is not the christian way to act. We are soppose to lift one another up. In that video...does it show them witha gun? Because they can get into a lot of trouble if it does...it will prove that you were forced. If it get bad enough...you might have to find another church. Just pray that God will protect you. If God is for us then who can be against us is what I always remember. God has forgiven you of all your sins (not that I'm talking about what happened) and that is what matters...not what others think. I am sure it's hard...but you need to stay strong in this with the help of God. Please don't take your life! That is exactly what satan wants you to do. Don't let the enemy win! You have an awesome testimony that alot of people need to here...I am quites sure of that! God has a plan for you and you have no idea how awesome it is!!!!
2007-07-20 02:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by Love not hate 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had to go through this but don't take your life away for this. Those people are not really your friend if they are avoiding you because of that. Just pray ask God to help you get through this. If the people in your church are really like that then you should look for another church where you won't be treated that way. As it says in the bible you shouldn't judge other people and your friends are doing exactly what I just wrote.
2007-07-20 02:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by FuTurE SolDieR 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would you rather be stripped naked beaten then hung on a cross. Christ knows your pain and agony. Trust the Lord he knows your offenders they will be punished. Im sorry that christains dont stand by you. All of Jesus' apostles left when Jesus went thru his crucificion. Only one attempted to stay with him but denied him 3 times then ran away crying bitterly
2007-07-20 01:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Tommiecat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 09:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shoulld not kill yourself. You did nothing wrong. God will judge those who did this. You need to move on with your life. Things that happen in our life can make us stronger or tear us apart. It depends on what you chose to let happen. Forgive them for what they have done and free yourself. Ignore those who judge. You can be happy in life. It is waht you make of it.
2007-07-20 02:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this question bothers me in answer..because something like this you think Police would have been inform...and you would have gotten some Professional help...other than going on a web site..asking for it...Yahoo..Answers....i hope if this happen that you Not only Report it..but talk to a Therapist.....get some real help..to start with....
2007-07-20 02:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all we are not to judge one another..secondly if a brother or sister sins we are to forgive them just as jesus christ forgives us of our sins.Now you stop telling people your business I am sorry what happened to you you must forgive those men that did that to you so that you can move on
2007-07-20 01:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For what suicide is a sin and what you went through was an abomination. You are innocent and a victim I wish you well
2007-07-20 02:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by devora k 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't take your life. Move somewhere else, somewhere no one knows you. Or just rise above it. Whatever you do, don't take your life.
2007-07-20 01:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Netti 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am sorry you had to go through that...... the only way to clear your name is to tell everyone exactly what happened........ there is no shame in the truth............ do not kill yourself over this......
2007-07-20 01:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋