How can you find nice and sweet guys? From their looks? Their personality? Or just how they treat you if your friends? Well i am in the dating process and would like a honest guy. Maybe buff and can protect me but i just don't know how to tell. Please help me.
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2007-07-20 01:48:13 · 5 answers · asked by Andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find a guy that is real, his personality will tell alot about him. Get to know him for a good while, like 3-6 months. Don't fall for initial impressions. Most people act entirely different for the first few months, then the real them comes out when they feel comfortable around you.
If the guy is true, he will never change.
2007-07-20 01:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is probably not what you're looking for but I think gut feeling is the best. If you're 15, this is not well developed yet. But if you're like 30, this is the most reliable thing there is. Just talk to him for like 5 minutes and see if the word 'play-ya' comes to mind. You fool yourself a lot of times when you don't want to face dissappointment. Like "Wouldn't it be great if this guy was all this AND faithful." But the truth is he's just not. You know who's really into you and who's just kind of or not really interested.
You may not find out right away, but your brain WILL give you signals before you're too deep into it. Don't be afraid to ask questions when they come up. Don't be afraid to accept realities. Realize that you'd love to be in a serious relationship but it's not worth it if you're going to get your feelings trashed.
On the flip side, yes, with dating there is some risk involved. Nothing's perfect. But I think your intuition, if you are brave enough to listen to it, can weed out 98% of the jerks. Balance your good judgement and your fear of getting hurt with your desire for romance. Don't let one or the other dominate.
2007-07-21 20:15:01 · answer #2 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can not tell a good guy by how he looks. It is in their personality, and how they treat other people. A good guy is usually the ones you see out that are nice and somewhat quiet, they do not brag or come over to women they do not know and start talking loads of b.s. They may talk to you but it will be in a nice sometimes joking manner, but not rude jokes. They will be polite in their manners, and the way they carry themselves. They will not be the ones when out at say a bar, that will be pushing and trying to get ahead of others, they will wait their turn. They may flirt some but will not make the 1st move unless you give them reason to, this once again is because they are not pushy and to not want to feel like they are pushing themselves on you. He will usually have a good since of humor, and make people feel at ease around him. They are good to their friends and loyal. In all good guys are around you just have to look for them. They will not be the ones trying to show off who they are or show off how tough they are. They will be the ones just sitting back and enjoying life and the people around them. The sad thing is most good men end up becoming the girls friends, because the girls know that if they need him he will be there, if they get passed out drunk he will be the one making sure other guys are not trying to take advantage of her. He will be the one when she sick and throwing up, holding her hair for her. He will be the one to take her home and put her in bed, and then leave. Without trying anything. You see guys like that are the good ones and that is why we always end up in the friendship zone. Not because we want to be there, but because we are gentlemen. The other sad fact is that we want to get to know the girl for who she is and not just what she looks like, that is also how we end up in that zone. So yes we are out here and looking to, but we are not as loud and cocky and macho as all the guys the girls usually fall for. So if you want a good man that will not cheat on you, That will love you, respect you and really care about you, you have to look for us and get to know us. I am sorry this was a little long but I do hope it helped you with your question. :)
2007-07-20 09:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Dave 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you just come across them and realize how nice they are through their words and actions. i think it's relatively easy to tell if a person is naturally nice or if they're just faking it. Sometimes, a guy could be covered in body art and look like the bad boy type but would still open the door for a girl and be chivalrous. looks can't tell you everything
2007-07-20 08:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell, there is NO majic method
2007-07-20 08:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by pround Twink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋