I mean whats the deal... shes so much nicer to me when people are around... especially my step dad... but mean to me when its just me and her..
yesturday my mom and my step dad was talking on the phone.. i guess he fell or something while talking on the phone... and she liked SCREAMED... "OMG YOU SCARED ME TO DEATH, I WAS SO WORRIED, BE CAREFUL,... OK GO GET SOME REST" i wanted to gag
i mean today she yelled at me cuz my step dad came home from his business trip and my mom wanted me to greet him on the drive way.. but i didn't go out early enough so he just came through the door
i think my moms going through metapause... i dont even think she loves me... she once told me that she wanted to get an abortion before i was born... but my stupid dad wanted to have me... (dont tell me to stay with him b/c hes as bad or worse)
how can i confront her... i mean im afraid she'll kick me out of the house if i do... she is so irrational
2007-07-20 00:46:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
YOUR MOM IS SELFISH AND IS NOT A GOOD MOM. I'M SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR SITUATION. DO YOU HAVE A RELATIVE YOU CAN LOVE WITH? ANBODY AT CHURCH THAT CAN HELP?
2007-07-20 01:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by carey646 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right sweetie, I don't know how old you are but I know that you are in a very bad spot.
Do you have any friends or relatives that you can stay with for a bit?
My heart goes out to you. I know that you feel very hurt by all this but it is not your fault. You will eventually be able to get the hell out of there and things will get better then.
Don't even confront your mom it would gain you nothing but more problems. Leave her to be the selfish person that she is and keep in mind that YOU can get past this.
2007-07-20 00:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rebecca W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your problem. I hope you don't mind me saying this, but i think your mom just wants to show others that she really cares about you. You said that she is nicer when people are around and not really nice when the two of you are alone.
Well, she wants to show others that she is nice when maybe she might not be. And yes, agreed, confrontation will only make it worse. because if you try confronting her, then she'll be afraid that you might one day challenge her. So might get even more harsh.
And yes, again, you could stay with people whom you know and who wouldn't mind letting you in. But try to be calm about the situation. And don't take anything to the heart. Whatever she says, just forget about it. Because you know what kind of person you are and if she is your mother, she must understand that and treat you likewise. For what you are.
Take care of yourself.
And god bless
2007-07-20 01:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by Achaniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋