I've never have a bf before. i am 17... dont tell me i am too young because i feel like i will be forever lonely. All my crushes are unrequited. I believe it had permanently scarred my self esteem. Am I really that ugly? I feel so depressed. help.
2007-07-20 00:40:36 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this is me
#1) http://img234.imageshack.us/img234/668/picture023lq5.jpg
#2) http://img216.imageshack.us/img216/9363/img0003js5.jpg
2007-07-20 00:49:18 · update #1
thanks for all the replies. most of them are pretty sweet
2007-07-20 01:02:55 · update #2
You don't need to post a pic for me to tell you, you're not ugly!
You just haven't found a boy who deserves to be with you yet!
I know how hard it is to be lonely, but take stock in yourself. You are special and unique and beautiful, and sooner or later, some great guy is going to see that. Give yourself some credit, be patient, and focus on your life and your goals for now. The right guy will come along.
Cheer up honey! :-)
2007-07-20 00:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Frinn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's someone for everyone sweety. Your time just hasn't come yet. Focus on being a whole and *happy* person. From that you will attract someone that will be crazy about you. Don't allow these things to affect you. You have worth and a lot to offer the right guy when he comes along.
Besides, you will want to probably date a few people so you can get an idea of what things are like, then you can settle. It's not a rule or anything. You can do what suits you, but being a happy person first is key!
:)
2007-07-20 00:47:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, don't worry. I'm only 18. You are not ugly. I know you aren't even if i've never seen you before. Some people just have different point of views about others. Not to worry, it's just what they think and they could be just jealous. What they think about you is a load of junk. It's best to ignore those people and have nothing to do with them. I know it can get very difficult dealing with this but I'm sure there's someone out there that'll really like you. ;) Everybody has their own differences and there's not 1 single problem with that.
You are most welcome to contact me by email if you have any more problems you would like to discuss. Remember, everybody's different and there's nothing wrong with that at all. Don't let others judge you.
2007-07-20 01:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH DONT SAY THAT! Just take it easy..you know, i've had my 1st bf when I was 19. And our relationship lasts until today (i'm 22 btw) and we're planning to get married soon. I am sure no girl is ugly,in fact they have their own uniqueness that certainly make them beautiful. If you think you are pretty,and that's how the world will see you. So why should you think otherwise? Just stop thinking of how to catch those guys.Let them 'catch' you, and it'll happen,when the time is right. Love your self, pretty! :) xoxo
2007-07-20 00:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by The Bookworm 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it has nothing to do with u being ugly.. guys dont even rly notice i dont think they can rly judge beauty anws.. u r probably one of those type of girls that look distant and difficult to start a conversation with ... u might be serious looking and strict which scares the guys away... if u find the guy that makes ur heart bit fast then don worry u will find a way to seduce him ;P just be a lil more open and sociable.. talk more and be funny... most importantly be CONFIDENT. believe in urself and love urself first so that others can follow u =)
good luck!
2007-07-20 00:47:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what you look like, so i cant say but i;'m sure youre not. If youre only 17 there is plenty of time, there are plenty o people that arent really goo looking at a young age but as they grow older they begin to look more mature and beatifal, so good luck, you'll be there soon.
2007-07-20 00:45:23 · answer #6 · answered by jame_football 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my first bf was when i was 20. i didnt even want a bf. i only got one cause everyone started having one and i felt incomplete cause i wasnt like others.
boy was i wrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrong.
you dont NEED a bf. nothing is wrong with you if u never had a bf/gf. especially at that age.
be friends with guys or girls first thats the best relationships. if things develop fine, if not fine.
but being lonely has nothing to do with having a bf. lots of people are married and lonely. if u want to be complete, take care of yourself and be fulfilled on your own.
2007-07-20 00:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No - i must admit i was really pleasantly surprised by your pictures! I thought you were really, really cute!! Remember the guys are all around your age too, and believe me EVERYONE is suffering..... In my own experience it took to sometimes in my 20's till everything started feeling okay in regards to relationships. You're almost there!
You are pretty!
Peace+
2007-07-22 10:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way!You are awesome looking!
I'm 15 and I've never had a boyfriend either.Guys have liked me and vice versa,but I always deny it and it never happens :(
I have bad self esteem(I'm not ugly though,I'm like you).
I would say that you should raise you esteem level and be confident,guys like that (I wish I knew how to do that!)
Good luck!!
2007-07-23 14:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by Floyyy :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up-ask your friends to hook you up, talk to guys, don't be shy, -you WILL find a date or he'll come to you, you're still a teen, (I'm 36 & haven't had a date in yrs, I feel the same but things may get better)-good luck.
2007-07-20 00:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋