Hi, I love this girl very much and we have been dating for 6 monthes and at the end of the 5th month she started haning out with this other girl that everybody hates and now she dumped me and is acting like this other girl and we used to love each other. She said that she lost interest in me and was sick of the fighting and with the issues all the time but the only reason we were fighting is because she started hanging out with the other girl. Now I said to her that I don't care who she hangs out with and stuff anymore, I just want her back. And it hurts so much because she is seeing someone else and it has oly been about 3 days and it hurts. About a month ago, we used to love each other so much and always wanted to be together and those feelings just dont vanish. I just want to get back together with her but she needs space. I'm thinking about waiting until schools starts and asking her out again and making everything better but I don't know. Please help me.
2007-07-20 00:31:27 · 6 answers · asked by Kyle B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want to here that she doesn't love me and that I should move on. I want advice on hw to get her back. Thanks.
2007-07-20 00:38:14 · update #1
She is also saying she an't be tied down to one person. She wants to date more people and she never felt that way until this other girl came into the picture.
2007-07-20 00:42:10 · update #2
does her friend have a boyfriend? if not shell do the same thing to him because this girl the friend is apparantly jealous of her relationships especially with you. give it time and perhaps she will come to see the light that this girl is not a friend at all once this chick gets a boyfriend shell dump your ex in a flash wait and have patience i know its hard to do wait till school starts and see her everyday if see has feelings for you they will rekindle and she will know she made a mistake tell her how you feel and sit back and wait what goes around comes around.
2007-07-20 01:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by marianne l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The poster that called you sick, was wrong. Nothing is wrong with you.
Hun,... love hurts, and you are right,... feelings dont change over night. Although it shounds as if hers started changing way before this, or she wouldnt have found someone so easily.
There is no magic way to make someone care about you, or think of you, or want to be with you,... if there were,... most divorces wouldnt happen.
The best thing for you,... is to go about your buisness,... let her know that you care about her,.. but that you accept her wishes, and you will move on as well.
Let her see you with other girls,... and see how that feels to her as well. But,... you may find yourself enjoying the company of another girl, and realize that you dont need someone that could replace you so quickly.
and by the way,... did you have a relationship with her new friend,... and if so,... maybe that friend had intentions of breaking you up all along
2007-07-20 07:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by solo_yo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I am sorry to be the one to have to say this but if she truly loved you as much as you say she did, she would have never left. I think because you love her so much, you think she felt the same deep love. That's not always the case. Just be grateful that you hadn't invested a whole lot of time in her and move on. Here's an old saying I think you should ponder:
If you love someone, set her free
If she comes back to you, she's yours
If she doesn't, she never was
2007-07-20 07:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make people love you. What do see in her anyway? Perhaps because she so drop dead gorgeous? Don't show her your weakness. If you want to win her back you need to be attractive. Intelligence, honesty, independence, family oriented, and helpfulness are attractive to girls. If you're still young you wouldn't know what love is until you're 25.
2007-07-20 07:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stress-maybe she'll come back or at least be a good friend in the future if things don't work like you wanted, give it time & see what happens.-good luck.
2007-07-20 07:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget it man, there loads of others around, move on!
2007-07-20 07:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by conman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋