She recently got out of a relationship and we both like each other, when she is out and drunk i get alot of texts sayin how mad for me she is and all that but she is a bit harder to read the rest of the time. I like her alot but i dont want to rush things and be the rebound guy.
How should i approach the situation?
And are these messages what she actually feels or just because she is drunk?
thanks for your help and advice HM
2007-07-20 00:24:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her too do some thing and dont be afraid too askher to do it or get in her pans but take things slow first take her to dinner! i'am a girl i know what a girl wants!
2007-07-20 00:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear, you're going to have to sit face to face with her and let her read some of these flirty texts when sober. Yes she is obviously into you. shes drunk but a bit more reserved when sober. No pressure tell her because shes on the rebound youre willing to take things slowly but you dont know how slow she wants to go as you've been getting the go ahead signals. Just make sure you let her know you're interested and willing to do what she wants.
2007-07-20 07:29:53 · answer #2 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can create the comforts of a career, home and family without being run ragged or seeming smug. Treat each project, plant, pet or job like your baby. Foster its independence or its ability to grow big and strong. Give someone who looks up to you another chance, or turn an error into your unique style by adding your special touch. Choose quality over quantity and love may flourish. You might have the opportunity to nurture some sensual pleasure or acquire a more abundant and fertile environment.
2007-07-20 07:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore drunk text messages. She is hurt and on the re-bound, approach with caution, don't let yourself get hurt. If shes out getting drunk without you this is a sure sign shes not ready to get back into a relationship just yet.....
2007-07-20 08:04:35 · answer #4 · answered by jessieket04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hm ..well i think u shud take things slow ..as she has jus *** out of a relationship she may need time to completelly get over it ..jus be gentle and supportive to ..when we r drunk we all say stuff sometimes we dont always mean so dont take anything to heart what she says when she is drunk ..jus carry on the way u r and see where it takes u ..goodluck anyway ..
2007-07-20 07:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by silky1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she must feel braver when she has had a few. Try texting her when you know she won't have been drinking and see what kind of response you get from her. She will probably be happy that you have thought about her. But if you really like her you need to talk to her face to face and tell her how you feel.
Good luck xx
2007-07-20 09:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by Pitstop!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't rush things if you only know her online. have you dated her yet? if you dated her, see how things go & you can decide if she's treating you right or just an alcoholic.
2007-07-20 07:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it when she is sober.Go to a nice little cafe for yourself,so you should and discuss the significance of her text msgs.If she refuses to discuss it then ditch her.you don't need someone messing with your head.
2007-07-20 07:29:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be this girls friend and see how she is with you but i would ask her about her drunken messages and say you do like her too and see how she replys
2007-07-20 07:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by samantha b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her when she is normal... actally real feelings may come when you sleep or drunk.. this is common to all. better to ask her out.. when he is not drunk.. best wishes..
2007-07-20 07:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋