should i stay in this relationship.or should i get out.i do have trust problem. the last man cheap on.me.
2007-07-19 19:51:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would stay away from him. It will take some time to heal but its way better to know this now than later. Besides, he probably wasn't just cheating on you; he was cheating on many other women as well.
How I know this, to cut a long story short, it had happen to me, but I’m not getting married. It’s just best to get out of this now or you have to deal with him for the rest of your life.
Good Luck!!!
Hope this helps!
=)
2007-07-19 20:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow--where do you live ??? Why 2 creepy bastards in a row?? How do you attract these losers??? NEVER accept a cheater--they are liars--they can bring home a disease--they are disrespectful, dishonest, no maturity, no regard for any woman, they hate themselves too...they feel inadequate and have to keep proving that they are real men--like that's what they are--they are not men --they are immature boys. Now why would you stay with any of these guys???What is so charming about any of them?? Give me one good reason. trust has to there or you have nothing. You will find a good guy--keep trying--accept only the best. If another one cheats--MOVE ON. Good luck
2007-07-20 03:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that he is cheating?
100% sure?
if you are.. tell him that u know and that u want him to stop.
was it a once off? was it a mistake once off? i can honestly say that i hav cheated once. but i did not mean to.. i was drunk.. was he drunk? and i would do it again.. will he do it again? i however did get forgiven and about a month later we broke up because it still haunted him.. will it haunt you? will u ever be able to trust him? u need to take all these things into consideration and think about it long and hard before doing anything drastic. is he the love of ur life?
hope this helps!
God bless =]
2007-07-20 02:57:20 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to it about him? Stand up and tell him that you are serious. Do your best to find the girl he is cheating on you with, see if she denies it or not.
Or you could play it safe and leave him. After all, you do have a trust problem (and do with good reason). If you don't trust him now, you may not trust him ever again. Especially if he seems like he's lying about it.
2007-07-20 02:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by pertinential 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are choosing the wrong type of guys. Leave that jerk. Make sure that you get to know a guy before you become his girlfriend. Watch for signs that he may not be faithful. If he is not faithful to others, he will not be faithful to you either.
2007-07-20 02:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't don't mean to be mean, but learn to spell. As for your boyfriend. If he's cheating on you, then DUMP THE GUY! It's not worth it being with someone like that. If I misinterpreted what you are asking then sorry.
2007-07-20 02:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, If he cheats on you now he will always cheat on you. Of course, if he makes a lot of money marry him and take everything in the divorce.
2007-07-20 02:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by AR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i'd get out. ONLY if i had FACTS or REALLY saw hime cheating.
You shouldn't rely on someone else telling you that he did;
because he might have not. Find out, before you get out!
2007-07-20 02:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by o_O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that sucks! but at least you found out now before you got married, dump his butt, move on
2007-07-20 02:55:56 · answer #9 · answered by Smiley Bright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave the cheap bastard... how could you trust him?
what about birthdays and christmas time?
2007-07-20 02:57:29 · answer #10 · answered by stifflergal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋