ok i have a immature and annoying girlfriend and im sick of her. My friend told me there is no way to dump a girl without making her hate u forever but i think there might be. the girl im dating is my sisters best friend and our parents r good friends so id hate to mess everything up and make every1 hate me. how do i break up with her nicely?
2007-07-19 19:48:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3 words..."I am gay"
2007-07-19 19:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sonny E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just tell her that you need to concentrate on doing things for yourself right now. That you have valued the time you spent with her, but now you think it best if you both move on. Just be nice, if she flips - that's her problem. As far as everyone else is concerned, I'm sure they'll understand. Relationships start and end all the time. Your friend is wrong - if a girl feels that you're honest, mature, and real - she wont hate you for ending things. If she does hate you for being honest, mature and real, then you made a wise choice in dumping her so who cares??
2007-07-19 19:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by sadlydrawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that you have been so busy lately that you really don't have time for a relationship. Tell her that it would not be fair to her if you were not able to take her out or talk to her very much. Tell her that you have been thinking a lot about your future, and you want to start putting your time and effort into preparing for your future. Tell her that there is no way you can do that, and have a relationship right now. Tell her that she is a nice girl, but it would be best if she starting dating other guys.
2007-07-19 19:54:25 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pay attention. in case you appreciate her. then tell her how that's. the reality. a minimum of it is going to unfastened her as much as persue somebody else. until eventually she feels precisely an identical then she will have the capacity to harm, yet you won't be able to alter your thoughts so why faux for her sake. that's not doing her any stable the two. Come directly together with her, and don't be an ***. as quickly as completed be sufficient of a pal to permit her call you up after to klet her vent her sorrow/rage yet proceed to be consistent. do not fall down and then pass to be sure her and finally end up in mattress, considering the incontrovertible fact that may not help her or you the two. basically be a guy. Be truthful and honest, and overtly regrettable that it became out this type. and don't in basic terms drop it on her. tell her you will desire to have a severe communicate and set it sluggish asside for it, and take a glance at to do it in guy or woman if in any respect achieveable.
2016-10-22 03:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her staight up "I don't think that we should be together right now and I don't want u to end up getting hurt so the best thing for us to do is break up." And what ever u do don't do it over the phone or on a text message or im or e-mail just tell her staight to her face she will take it much better. Good Luck and I hope everything wotks out fine!
2007-07-19 19:57:33 · answer #5 · answered by anonymousgirl 95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell that u think it isnt the right time to be in a realationship and that u would like some alone time and that u nees ur air..and that maybe later on in the future u could go back out...and just say i want to be friends...?but say with feeling like u really care about her and the way she feels about it and hopefuly u can start a conversation the next day to make sure she is all right or wait a few days to do that..lol
2007-07-19 20:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by tren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first is, dont use the word dump, use the word set free, tell her you are setting her free and that she and you both deserve better partners who will love you for who you are
tell her you need to find yourself first and you need to let go of her and that you both need to take a separate journey, tell her there are things that you no longer want in her like her being annoying and you dont believe it would work, tell her that she has been an important part of your life but now its about time you both find and explore other options, atleast that will do for me.when im your gf.
2007-07-19 19:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say this exactly : i know that the couple of (either days, weeks, months,years ect.)we have spent together were great. but i am afraid that i cant see you anymore and besides you are not my type. i just think we would be better if we weren't together.
: oh and another tip dont say we can still be friends. that gets them really mad. usually when you break up thats it and you dont want to talk again
2007-07-19 19:54:49 · answer #8 · answered by reed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn around and be the exact same way to her or worse. Whine, pout, do whatever. She may just break up with you.
There is never a nice way to break up with a girl.
2007-07-19 19:54:45 · answer #9 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you do not want to be with her anymore because she is immature & clingy (or whatever you can't stand about her). Just be honest. You can't worry about what others think, just do what's right for you. Don't be nasty, that's all you can do.
2007-07-19 19:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by RAVEN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to break up with you. That way it is her fault. Or just tell her you have herpes. Course, that would screw things up with the 'rents and what not. Just get her to break up with you.
2007-07-19 19:51:36 · answer #11 · answered by nogardsdragon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋