me and my ex boyfriend have decided to remain friends after he recently became engaged. i'm perfectly fine with just being friends, but sometimes when we spend time alone together, HE starts putting the moves on me. he's really not a BAD guy, but he has no will power, and when he's around me, he wants it. after doing this he feels horrible because he wishes he didn't get those feelings for anyone bet his finance. do you think he really loves this girl, or is it possible that he does love her but has some kind of male nymphomania or something? i realize we shouldn't still be friends, but if you could ignore that detail and try to answer the question i would appreciate it. thanks.
2007-07-19 19:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay....if i get a bunch of responses in regards to the fact that we're still friends and shouldn't be, or people accusing me of wanting him, i won't be very happy. he's been a good friend of mine for a long time, and i don't want to loose his friendship. i'm very supportive of his new relationship.
2007-07-19 19:44:10 · update #1
Lindsay--the guy is not nice-YES HE IS A BAD GUY---he is disrespectful, dishonest and the same as any other low life cheater. He is cheating on his fiance and USING you. There is no male nymphomania--he just wants sex from you. stay away from him--he is no friend. And this new girl of his is just a disaster waiting to happen. Wait till she finds out about you--you will be in for it--BIG TIME. Don't get in trouble with her --stay waway from him and tell him he made you feel cheap. Unless you like this sex and just do it anyway---if that is the case---why bother to care???
2007-07-19 19:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a weak person. Only a good strong man would keep is package in his pants. A man with no willpower is worthless, and will never be able to hold down a commited relationship for very long. Tell him that if he feels so bad, why doesn't he act mature and not do it in the first place. My guess is that he is just saying that. He doesn't feel bad. He is playing you.
2007-07-20 02:45:06 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right this guy has no will power and can't be trusted I know you don't want to here this but you two should not be alone together. I also don't think that he really loves her because if he did he would have found the will power.
2007-07-20 02:54:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Major difference between guys and girls = girls equate sex with love. Guys do not. He probably does love his fiance to some degree, but he also wants to sleep around. The part about him having no will power is bs.
2007-07-20 02:42:54 · answer #4 · answered by godeep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is selfish and immature. he would do the same to you if he was your guy and he'll continue while he's with her.
This is how diseases get spread and hearts get broken. One of you please get some will power and do the right thing before more damage is done.
ok sweetheart?
2007-07-20 02:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by thelatahboy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's engaged and your still hanging with him you must want it also.
2007-07-20 02:39:47 · answer #6 · answered by Christopher J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋