There is this guy who has been pursueing me for quite some time now. He tells me all the time how beautiful and funny and smart i am and how talking to me is what he looks forward to most in his day, everyday. Sounds perfect right? Wrong. He has somewhat of a reputation for being a player.
I straight up asked him about his relationships in the past and he swears that those days are completely behind him and what he wants now more than anything is a real relationship. Btw I will be15 in September and he just turned 16. The problem isn't that i don't like him...the problem is that i like him but feel like im setting myself up to get hurt. So do i give him a chance or break off from talking to him?
i have been playing hard to get for like a month!
and he came after me by messaging on facebook and iming me.so either this means he's a really GOOD player or he actually just wants to be with me...which do you think it is?
2007-07-19 19:34:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know the answer that is tough . He is probably a real good player so I think you should tell him I would like to date you but your reputation is hard to get around. At 16 I doubt his player day's are over probably just beginning. How much do you like him. If you date him do it at your own pace be sure he gets to know your mind before he gets to know your behind. Love yourself God Bless and Good Luck !!
2007-07-19 19:44:16 · answer #1 · answered by richard s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not worth your time. You will be able to find many guys out there who don't have a reputation for a player. To be honest, 16 is just too young to even be considered a player. The guy probably only has game for HIS age. Don't give into it, there are other fish in the sea. Don't forget to tell yourself that. Keep your options open, he most likely is doing the exact same thing.
2007-07-20 02:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by TegLover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had sooooo much experience when it comes to being played.. and im telling you.. this guy is not playing you.. he actually likes you and wants to be with you.. no player would stick around for a month.. they dont go for the hard to get girls.. they go 4 the easy ones.. so basically.. this guy is for real.. besides in life everything is a risk and if u dont take risks then ur not really living.. sure u might get hurt in the end.. but wont it b worth the adventure? i reckon you should give him a go.. you never know what awaits!
Good luck & God bless =]
2007-07-20 02:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by becstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reputations at his age mean a lot and are hard to break. After all he has an image to maintain. You sound vey mature. Give him a chance in about 5 years. Maybe by then he will have grown up.
2007-07-20 02:51:50 · answer #4 · answered by godeep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u honestly feel like ur setting urself up then don't get into it but if he honestly wants a relationship i say go for it but don't get to attached cuz if he breaks ur hearrt it will b a pretty bad break up just watch ur back and don't get too attached
2007-07-20 02:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by lovelylady7950 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well all i can say is he is good..and see if hes been tlking to any other girls about going out with him..they can put it behind them and sumtimes they cant but if u like him then try it out and if it doesnt feel right like sumthins goin on break it off..
2007-07-20 02:40:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the more you say no to him, the more he sees you as a challenge. He sounds like a playah, straight up!
2007-07-20 02:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by thelatahboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like what the first person said.
2007-07-20 02:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋