Would you tell a girl that you do not know very well that her boyfreind was cheating on her with another for about 6 months. The other girl did not know he had a girlfreind, let alone lives with her. He was asked point blank and lied about it. What would you do???
2007-07-19 19:19:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you everyone who answered. I care because I base my decisions on the truth, and he lied and deliberatly mislead me. I feel she need to know so she can make a choice about what she wants to do. And trust me she will believe me, I have the e-mails to prove it.
2007-07-19 19:31:58 · update #1
yeah you should tell her. its not your fault he lied, hopefully the other girl will see that and maybe you could both have a loser cheating boyfriend bash over ice cream. that way, you don't have to feel guilty about not telling the other girl (because you know the guy will keep cheating on her, and that's not fair is it??)
If it were me, i would want you to tell me. hope i helped!
2007-07-19 19:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Amber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. That is not your business let the guy alone and if he can pull it off so be it, but I think that his actions are going to come back to him. My downstairs neighbor has two boyfriends, one of them is a policeman and the other is just some good for nothing kid.I don't say anything to either of them because it is not my problem, as long as she doesn't sleep with my boyfriend I couldn't care less
2007-07-20 02:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by daramint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'd be awful news to break to her and she might not believe you. I personally would try to tell her somehow because I feel she has a right to know, but I know that many would say it's none of my business to do something like that. Whatever you do there will be consequences. Choose what you think is best to do.
2007-07-20 02:23:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still feel a sense of duty in telling my friend....or acquaintance. Just because you wouldn't want to see anyone lasting for so long in an unknowing betrayal.
I would say.....just talk to said person.
2007-07-20 02:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by jackie_mez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell the girl in a letter or something.. id take pictures and leave them on her door step... if you tell her do it anonymously cause if you get yourself into something you shouldnt it can get very dangerous...So tell her but be very cautious... but thats only if u wanna tell her... i dont see why you care if you dont know her but hey do it!
2007-07-20 02:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were going to stick my nose into her business, I would just say something like this, "Who is that girl I see your bf with all of the time?" Then just drop it, unless she asks you any questions.
2007-07-20 02:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some cheaters have so much nerve. I would personally want to know and I would hope that my friend, no matter how long we had been friends would tell me.
2007-07-20 02:24:40 · answer #7 · answered by lilbitbeechy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd do my best to get the two girls to meet each other. How could the bf talk his lying tongue out of that? lying sack of turds that he is....
2007-07-20 02:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Melly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are any kind of friend, you would say something. She'll thank you in the long run.
2007-07-20 02:22:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not my business and not my responsibilty because she may not believe you and stop being your friend theres the rigt thing to do and the smart thing to do
2007-07-20 02:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Rouzier D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋